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The Mature Sex Goddess
The life and times of a middle-aged woman.
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Posted:Sep 3, 2022 8:58 am
Last Updated:May 30, 2023 5:5 am

I haven't posted in my blog in a while so I thought a quick update was in order...well, guess what???? I can't get to my blog anymore from my homepage!!! WTF????? I also see that my membership expires on 10/12/22 which not sure if that means I won't be able to access anything at all any more but I can assure you, I will not be paying for anything on this site. Perhaps it is time to wrap it up and abandon this site??? I've been trying to clean up and get rid of all the kinky acrutemons that I have in my house just in case I die in the near future.

I don't know, it seems like everything continues to change and not necessarily for the best, like this site, not being able to get to my blog, not being able to get to the groups that I am a member of...just makes me tired.

On the health front, I do have a new breast cancer care team at the "other" saint hospital here in Tulsa and I'm set for a double-mastectomy with reconstruction on Monday, 09/26/22. I'm busy trying to get my house in order, my paperwork for my job in order and just get ready for a month of shear and complete agony but then that will be the end of having to deal with breast cancer.

I'm anxious to get my breast reconstruction underway and get the inflatable implants to create the size of my new breasts. The reconstruction will involve getting new nipples, not sure if they will be tatooed on or if I will go for actual sewn on created nipples. There's so much involved when getting new breasts...but like I said, I have a new care team and they are FANTASTIC!!!! Nothing like doctors that communicate with you and tell you how they honestly feel or what their professional opinions are...

Maybe making a post will get me back on the "active" list but who the hell knows?!?!?!?!?!
Happy Valentine's Day!!
Posted:Feb 14, 2022 5:47 pm
Last Updated:Feb 15, 2022 2:17 pm

Thank goodness, the day is almost done!! I have mixed emotions on Valentine's Day because my mother died on Valentine's Day... years ago. My dad said it was Mom's way of getting back at him for all the times he forgot Valentine's Day, birthdays, anniversaries...this was her way of painfully reminding him of his short comings. Poor man, he was so lost without her that he ended dying years later.

I've had some good Valentine's Days through the years. I decorate and celebrate in my own way. It's just another day and now it is done. Maybe one of these years off in the future I'll have anothr Valentine of my own. That sounds so strange because I just don't have what that man would be or rather who he would be.

I'm not going to say there will never be another Valentine in my life, that woud be ridiculous and stupid...never say never!!!

Happy Valentine's Day!!!
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Say Hello...
Posted:Jan 16, 2022 8:54 am
Last Updated:Jan 21, 2022 6:26 am
Say hello to my new little friend...the LELO Ora3. This little clit tickler is AWESOME!!!! Who needs a man when I've got all these expensive LELO sex toys???? lol

Quick, easy, easy to clean, quick to charge...LOVE IT!!!
Back Among the Living!!!
Posted:Dec 28, 2021 6:09 am
Last Updated:Jan 4, 2022 9:33 am

Merry Fucking Christmas to me!! I came down with a pretty bad case of pneumonia around the 18th of December and pretty much was down and out of it through all of last week, spending Christmas home alone with my standard poodle and just sleeping/resting and coughing my way through the holiday.

This was the first Christmas that I can remember that I didn't spend it with any of my family. I was just too sick to travel even an hour away, so I stayed home and rested.

My doctor's office wouldn't even see me, which totally pissed me off. When I called to see if there was anything I could take to help ease up the coughing, they told me to go to an urgent care and get a COVID test. There was no way I was going to sit for 4 or 5 hours even with an appointment to get a COVID test or to have someone tell me that I have pneumonia or the flu, so I made one of the last appointments for a COVID test at a drive through pharmacy and got a COVID test, which came back negative.

Let's just say it's going to be ugly at my next doctor's appointment in mid-January when I discuss with my doctor why I never go to the ER or Urgent Care and if I'm going to die, I'll just simply die at home alone because it sure would be better than dying at the hospital or urgent care surrounded by people that will not do anything about what's going on with my health!! I know, pretty dramatic but I really am questioning why I'm paying out so much money the older I get to have health insurance when I can't use it anywhere because no one will see me???????

Pretty crazy!!! Nothing planned for NYE or New Year's Day...more resting and recovering. I will be doing a delayed Christmas with my and his family on Sunday, so that will be the next time I get out and gather with family.

Pretty crazy crap with COVID and whatever other illnesses that are making the rounds!!!

Yes I'm back among the living for the time being!!!
Too Old?!?!?!?!?!?
Posted:Dec 5, 2021 4:18 pm
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2021 3:10 pm

I just had a 74 year old man tell me that I was what he considered an "older" woman by a vanilla dating sites standards!!!

Wow. I was not expecting that, especially from a man that is .5 years older than I am!!! He says that he would love meet me for coffee and conversation see how we "click" but that I was older than most of the women that he has interacted with on that website.

Needless say I suddenly wasn't interested in venturing any further with him. I don't want meet for coffee and conversation someone sum me up as "too old!"

I would like to think of myself as knowing exactly what my pussy purpose is and how I can get the most out of a physical interaction.

Seriously, I'm too old??????????
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College Football Hell!!!!
Posted:Nov 30, 2021 4:38 am
Last Updated:Dec 3, 2021 11:31 am

As an Oklahoma Sooner Fan, I am officially in NCAAF Division 1 Football Hell!!!

Not only did my Oklahoma Sooners loose the Bedlam game, but now our Coach and half of the staff and who knows how many players will be headed to California to the University of Southern California.

Yep, it's crazy!! Yes, the Sooner Nation will recover and grow to become the football powerhouse that it has always's just takes a little longer than we'd all like.

I guess the Oklahoma University football coach drama did take away some of the celebratory feelings of Oklahoma State winning Bedlam this year. Once every 10 years is ok, not really but if there has to be an Oklahoma State win, I really don't want to see another one for a while.

I could go on and on about why Oklahoma State won...29 seniors with the potential for 22 to return next year. Dear Football Gods...when you've got men that have been at school for 5, 6 and 7 years playing football and there aren't any NFL potential players on the defense, seriously, most of those guys just need to retire when they decide they are finally too old to play football any more!!!
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Thanksgiving Eve
Posted:Nov 24, 2021 3:05 pm
Last Updated:Nov 26, 2021 7:49 am

Ok, so I allowed myself the 24-hr depression mode, time out of and function!! I do not cook tomorrow which I'm glad. Having done the Thanksgiving meal last year for my , -in-law and two amazing grandkids, I realized is a reason I passed the baton on family dinners to the younger folks!!! is a lot of work. Then is the clean up because I had no one help me as my 's family was on their way a family hunting trip in western Oklahoma, so was just me and my granddog at that time. So relieved they did the family hunting trip a weekend earlier so they can do the Thanksgiving day meal!!!

I finally found a pair of Thanksgiving themed pair of running shoes. They are a bright orange which for this Sooner fan, 's really difficult down at my feet and see that freaking bright orange crap on my feet, but they pics of turkeys, knife and forks, pies, everything Thanksgiving meal oriented!!!! They are made by Brooks and I am a true freak when comes getting themed running shoes for the holidays!!!

I would really loved these shoes in a tan or brown color or even a yellow or deep olive color. But orange is and orange I'll wear. for tomorrow, Thanksgiving day!!

I'm going to be making my cranberry/jalapeno cream dip for tomorrow. I already bought a chocolate silk pie from the food club and that will be the extent of my contributions.

I'll spend a couple of hours on the road tomorrow for my Thanksgiving. I don't mind, driving is a lot easier than cooking!!!!

And then will be the big Bedlam game on Saturday evening. I am really hoping my Sooners can pull out this win and prove all the predictions and such wrong that this is the COWBOYS year. Come on Sooner magic!!! Boomer Sooner!!!
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Tuesday before Thanksgiving
Posted:Nov 23, 2021 7:02 am
Last Updated:Nov 24, 2021 9:51 am

I have been struggling to remain positive this past week. I feel on a metal patio chair the Saturday before last and really hurt myself bad. Not so bad that I had to go to the hospital but when I did get in to see the doctor, his comment was that he had not seen a hematoma that covered from hip to hip a cross the abdomen like mine did.

He looked at it and ever so gently touched various parts of it to see if there was anything remarkable other than the very deep purple almost black color to my belly and below. It hurt, it still hurts but the coloring is finally turning into the lighter shades of bruising and there is only one spot that is still rock hard and super sensitive. I have been able to do absolutely nothing other than rest. I push myself to the point where I can't go any more and have to lay down and rest.

The same goes for the job, still working from home but all the sitting all day long makes me sore and tired. I get to a point where it hurts so much all I want to do is sit and cry but I push on through it and get my work day done and then go lay down and rest.

Not being able to do anything this time of year is beyond frustrating. And to top it all off I am finding myself more and more depressed. I'll snap out of it eventually but for the time being I'm so frustrated!!

Yesterday the realization that nothing stays the same and everyone wants to keep Thanksgiving as simple as possible, no need in me doing any of the incredible edible delights that I'm used to making...everything is store bought and convenient. No love and hard work required. WTF????? What do I have to look forward to other than showing up, eating what may be there and then heading home??

And to top it all off, this is Bedlam weekend. My Sooners have not been playing up to the caliber that I think they need to play...this might be the year that the OTHER Oklahoma team beats my OU Sooners!!! Good God!!!

So, I find myself having to gear back and heal from my terrible fall. I'm feeling the self-imposed isolation that goes with working from home and being injured. Life can be so challenging at times!!
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AdultFriendFinder ADS
Posted:Nov 9, 2021 8:31 am
Last Updated:Nov 10, 2021 11:50 am

I saw a new profile posting in the local AdultFriendFinder ads where the man stated that he will not settle for anything less than what he has put in his profile. He is seeking someone that is into Oral AND Anal Sex.

I interpreted his ad that he is NOT interested in anyone that may be into Oral but not Anal. In my mind, that puts me out of consideration. Looking at the guy's physical stats, I'm not interested in seeing if we could come to a meeting of the minds or bodies.

I just found it interesting that the guy put it out there that he's NOT willing to settle. Good for him!!!
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Posted:Sep 18, 2021 9:40 am
Last Updated:Sep 3, 2022 8:49 am


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