Hookup, Find Sex or Meet Someone Hot Now

Having a Master, is that weird?  

urexgf 21F
45 posts
12/16/2018 9:15 pm
Having a Master, is that weird?

Ok some people seem to think it's really weird that I have a Master and that I let him determine who I have a date with (or not) and where that date would be. This is not something I'm coerced into doing. The problem is that a) I get an awful lot of messages, friend requests, IMs, you name it and it's almost impossible to keep track.

What my Master does is act like a buffer between me and the hundreds of requests that I have for a date. He keeps my privacy private, he keeps me anonymous, but more importantly he helps to filter out the fakes, time-wasters, stalkers, and creeps who I really wouldn't want a date with anyway. So I have everything to gain and actually very little to nothing to lose by this relationship and that's the way I like it.

He's not a , I'm not a ... so there's no money in any of this. He just finds people who want to share an interesting experience with me, something that I will enjoy as much as they hopefully will.

Is that so weird?

karlanthony5 43M
26 posts
12/17/2018 2:29 am

Yes it is weird.

I remember a young female co-worker once told me that she wore a pretend wedding ring when she went to nightclubs to stop the bad boys from approaching her.

No prizes for guessing what her next boyfriend was like

Heathen_G 61M
7838 posts
12/17/2018 3:43 am

It's weird. Eventually he is going to get jealous and want his pound of flesh from you [have sex with you].

Would have been better to just do this yourself.... or just not be on this kind of site at all.

silberloewe1 47M
107 posts
12/17/2018 4:10 am


VenusRedux2 45F
552 posts
12/17/2018 5:00 am

Who are you trying to convince here? Us? Or yourself?

You come online looking for attention, and when you get it, you're pretending to act confused. Getting the most expected reaction possible doesn't make you some special snowflake. Every woman here knew exactly what to expect, exactly what to do to mitigate the volume, and know exactly who they're talking to. Every woman. Except you. Why is that?

This is not a long established relationship where that kind of trust has been developed. You just gave him toxic levels of power over you ... all in the name of the dom/sub swinger lifestyle. People have been watching too much porn and have begun thinking this stuff is normal, so they pretend they're living in a world where porn is real.

In the porn world, this entire post is a backhanded way of saying "I'm having this sex positive lifestyle that you should be jealous of." In the real world, this is called an abusive relationship.

You're a free hooker. Calling it a "master/sub relationship" aren't magic words that somehow change that.

But but but .... hundreds of requests! Oh my. Let me go find some pearls to clutch.

horny_4_eva 35M
108 posts
12/17/2018 7:31 am

You must know the answer as you're already questioning the situation. It wouldn't be weird if I didn't bother you.

Leegs2012 47M
55336 posts
1/19/2019 10:29 am

It's OK, I have a Femdom!

Dominanteyes 40M
81 posts
2/1/2019 11:14 am

I don’t think it’s weird at all. Unusual to some, Yes. I’ve experienced the same situation with a couple of Subs. Ultimately just do you

Become a member to create a blog