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veryfunnycple64 56M/57F
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11/22/2015 12:58 pm

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11/25/2015 5:21 am

BDSM Fetish Weekend



I am here today sitting in my living room skimming my memories of this weekend. It started with my "little girl" sub and I driving to the BDSM/Fetish Convention on Friday- of course we started out late! We packed to much underestimated traffic, but we eventually arrived at the event to register. We met some wonderful folks- we all were smiling with the anticipation of events to yet to come. After registration, we checked in at our hotel and dumped our gear in our room. We headed out for a quick bite to eat- Houlihan's; it was delicious with great service. We hurried to the BDSM welcoming opening and the room was electric with sexual buzz. Speeches and pro forma thank yous- the event kicked off! The lights were dimmed and the fun begin. My sub and I walked around meeting and greeting our "lifestyle" friends. We observed the new- neophytes; they were wide eyed and very observant- sitting by themselves. I observed the old school fetishist with the air of confidence and a smirk. I observed the "dungeon" full with half dressed, leather bound, corsets cinched tight, naked, littles, and ponies/puppies. The dungeon was a cacophony of sounds- screams, laughing, talking, and moaning which blended into a kinky white noise. My sub and I did not play this night rather we observed, caught up with old friends, and made new friends.

Saturday during the day was full of fetish classes! We took a glass on Violet Wands- electric play. My sub is intrigued and at other fetish events she sampled Violet Wands and she became intrigued, thus we took the glass to learn more! And yes, we plan in purchasing one! The other class we took was "Playing hard and kinky with your lady." All I can say was wow! This class taught me some of the stuff I am doing was like what the instructor was doing, but I also learned to new tricks! My sub looked at me grinned- she stated, "Daddy, you do lots of the same stuff!" This class was about observing a Dom pleasuring his sub while using lots of BDSM toys and lots of vibrators and dildos along with electro-stimulating devices! The glass lasted one hour and half and he demonstrated edge play with his sub- and he allowed her to cum at the last five minutes of class!

Saturday evening was dungeon time for my sub and I. My sub wore her black corset with red lace negligee underneath with black leather tight pants. I chose a stand up rack in the corner to use. She undressed and stood up to the rack. I placed a black mask over her eyes and I gave her ear plugs- she placed them in her hears. I wanted my sub to be in her own head and not focus on the distraction of people and noise of the dungeon. I took off my black shirt and began to organize my tools and toys. BDSM music thumping and blasting, I began. We played for fifty minutes and my sub was in her sub-space and I was in my Dom-space. I was oblivious to the the hundreds of people playing, observing, and talking. My sub and I was in our own head space. When I finished, I let my sub to a chair and I wrapped a blanket around her and I gave her water. I then cleaned up the wrack and I put away my tools. We sat together for 30 minutes and then we dressed and walked outside of the dungeon to discuss the evening's scene. She was still riding her endorphin rush. We hung around chatting and mingling with our friends until 1:00 a.m.

Sunday we slept until 10:00 a.m. and we proceeded to dress and pack. We checked out at 11:00 a.m. We stopped by the BDSM Convention to see what I won at the silent auction. I won a Corian paddle (a paddle made out Corian counter top remnants) which the vendor assures me will be easy maintenance and very stingy! My sub can't wait for me to try it on her bottom.

So this was my weekend. How was your weekend?






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spunkycumfun 60M/65F  
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11/22/2015 2:14 pm

My weekend was positively boring compared to your weekend!


veryfunnycple64 56M/57F
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11/22/2015 2:15 pm

    Quoting spunkycumfun:
    My weekend was positively boring compared to your weekend!
lol...it was an exciting weekend for me that is for sure! but, most weekends are like yours!

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veryfunnycple64 56M/57F
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11/22/2015 5:31 pm

    Quoting yesmamallthetime:
    Yowza. Is that what happens at a BDSM convention? It does sound fascinating. I am not sure I could be a sub. I am too much of the idea that being a sub is for a woman of low self esteem or being held a prisoner or slave. I have been told differently of course but I cannot get the images of that Cleveland monster Ariel Castro out of my mind. I don't think I could give over control of myself like that. I mean being blindfolded may be okay and lightly restrained. I know some feminists say that being a sub is about choice but to me it is not such an easy choice. LOL Perhaps I would like to be the dominant one, but not all the time. I had thought that made me a switch at one time but I just think I want to experience a regular sensual relationship first. I have miles to go before I get to such fetishness I guess. So anyway, I am glad you had a good weekend.
in today's BDSM world, the sub has he power...she had to consent and everything has to be negotiated. The Dom only has the "power" that the sub has given. Or sub before are Tops and some or bottoms. and in another view....S/M (Sadist and Masochist). Yes...it is very fascinating!

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pal334 66M  
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11/22/2015 5:51 pm

It was pleasant , but certainly not like yours. Sounds like you to had a great time

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veryfunnycple64 56M/57F
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11/22/2015 6:01 pm

    Quoting pal334:
    It was pleasant , but certainly not like yours. Sounds like you to had a great time
yes...it was fun...but most weekends are like yours!

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citizen4722 62M  
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11/23/2015 6:55 am

"My sub wore her black corset with red lace negligee underneath with black leather tight pants."
I have that image in my head just now


veryfunnycple64 56M/57F
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11/23/2015 5:07 pm

    Quoting citizen4722:
    "My sub wore her black corset with red lace negligee underneath with black leather tight pants."
    I have that image in my head just now
Yea...it was a awesome sight!

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veryfunnycple64 56M/57F
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11/23/2015 5:11 pm

    Quoting kajiraAriel:
    Sounds like a wonderful weekend was had! The classes sounded great! As does that paddle you won. It sounds like it would be very stingy and I wonder if it might not mark nicely too. We need well organized events like you describe in the falls!!!

    Mine was a weekend of resting up to feel better and not much fun at all...certainly not that type of fun. Happy to hear you a very good one my friend
I am sure there is BDSM conventions somewhere near you...near Buffalo or Toronto! I am glad you are feeling better. I will try out the new paddle in the near future!

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author51 57F
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11/24/2015 2:00 am

    Quoting yesmamallthetime:
    Yowza. Is that what happens at a BDSM convention? It does sound fascinating. I am not sure I could be a sub. I am too much of the idea that being a sub is for a woman of low self esteem or being held a prisoner or slave. I have been told differently of course but I cannot get the images of that Cleveland monster Ariel Castro out of my mind. I don't think I could give over control of myself like that. I mean being blindfolded may be okay and lightly restrained. I know some feminists say that being a sub is about choice but to me it is not such an easy choice. LOL Perhaps I would like to be the dominant one, but not all the time. I had thought that made me a switch at one time but I just think I want to experience a regular sensual relationship first. I have miles to go before I get to such fetishness I guess. So anyway, I am glad you had a good weekend.
I am so with you....I would still find it degrading no matter how they try to explain it to me.I could never be a sub.Not my personality nor desire but what ever turns your crank and I never pass judgement. these are just my opinions.. would like some of the corsets though and wear them...the women to me when they have to say yes please, no thank you and I am a bad little girl sound very wimpy, no backbones...or must be due to past relationships either with their Dad or a male dominant world they have not matured yet....No matter how old they are chronologically..I already surrender to pleasure while a man is playing with me.. that is a form of submission. I do like light bondage and blindfolds...I have had too many men in my life who tried to dominate me..sex wise as well... Not going there....

sorry funny..I am glad you had fun though..

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veryfunnycple64 56M/57F
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11/24/2015 5:10 am

    Quoting author51:
    I am so with you....I would still find it degrading no matter how they try to explain it to me.I could never be a sub.Not my personality nor desire but what ever turns your crank and I never pass judgement. these are just my opinions.. would like some of the corsets though and wear them...the women to me when they have to say yes please, no thank you and I am a bad little girl sound very wimpy, no backbones...or must be due to past relationships either with their Dad or a male dominant world they have not matured yet....No matter how old they are chronologically..I already surrender to pleasure while a man is playing with me.. that is a form of submission. I do like light bondage and blindfolds...I have had too many men in my life who tried to dominate me..sex wise as well... Not going there....

    sorry funny..I am glad you had fun though..
then you don't have to be a sub....you can just do Bondage and discipline with no surrendering! It's all negotiated in the BDSM lifestyle. This life is not for everyone. Thanks for your thoughts on this! I appreciate your feedback.

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author51 57F
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11/25/2015 3:34 am

    Quoting veryfunnycple64:
    then you don't have to be a sub....you can just do Bondage and discipline with no surrendering! It's all negotiated in the BDSM lifestyle. This life is not for everyone. Thanks for your thoughts on this! I appreciate your feedback.
I would do bondage as I have before with silk scarves and handcuffs, it is the discipline part that sticks in my craw..surrender my body to feel it come alive only takes the slightest touch for me as I am all about textures during play. My body is my temple and shall never see any red marks on my beautiful ass from a hard slap nor from a devise..a slight tap with the penis there is wonderful and I do like anal play.I appreciate you not taking my comments personally like some others have....I enjoy reading your blog.I always have.

One can never have enough JOY in their life...

MAKE YOU MOAN DAY ON THE PROWL
I SEE YOUR TRUE COLOURS SHINING THROUGH


veryfunnycple64 56M/57F
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11/25/2015 5:21 am

    Quoting author51:
    I would do bondage as I have before with silk scarves and handcuffs, it is the discipline part that sticks in my craw..surrender my body to feel it come alive only takes the slightest touch for me as I am all about textures during play. My body is my temple and shall never see any red marks on my beautiful ass from a hard slap nor from a devise..a slight tap with the penis there is wonderful and I do like anal play.I appreciate you not taking my comments personally like some others have....I enjoy reading your blog.I always have.
I am glad you like my blog! I like yours as well! Happy Thanksgiving!

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