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warmandsexy52 68M
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11/16/2013 11:42 am

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Do We Need Men?

I first trained as a biologist and I have retained a curiosity about how living things tick despite my life taking me elsewhere. Now there’s something that seems to make a lot of sense to me as a biologist, but worries me as a male.

It’s all about sex.

Or why there should be 50% male and 50% female.

You see, there is no rule in nature that we should have as many males as females. For example:

In a beehive there is one fertile female, hundreds or even thousands of infertile females and a handful of male drones.

In many species unfertilised eggs turn into males.

In alligators you get little girly gators when the eggs are laid in cool sand and lil baby boy gators when the sand is warm. In turtles it is the other way round.

A little insect called Stictococcus sjoestedti that sucks the sap of cocoa trees, eggs infected with a particular type of symbiotic fungus become females. Those that are uninfected become males.

The green spoonworm is born without sex, but becomes a male if it comes near a female in the first few days and ceases to develop further. If it doesn’t then it finds a crevice in the sea floor, grows and becomes a female. A female literally snuffles up her diminutive partner and he spends the rest of his life in a little chamber fertilising eggs that pass by. If this was scaled up to human proportions for the female the lil feller would be no bigger than an eraser at the end of a pencil.

There seems to be a general rule that when the environment becomes challenging the male to female ratio increases to A-F-F proportions so there are many more males than females. This increases diversity and competition. But when the environment becomes more secure the reverse occurs and the species becomes increasingly feminised.

Now we are creatures of nature, so we are bound by similar “rules”, many of which we still don’t understand. Think about your own sexuality and it doesn’t take much imagination to see how animal like we are. Okay, we can throw in the occasional kinky stuff (woohoo or yee haw, according to taste, lol!) but basically we are subject to similar ways of going about things.

So in an age where there are sperm banks do men run the risk of being redundant?

And as a sex are men more of a liability to the species than women? After all men commit more crimes of all sorts than women do, are generally less reliable in raising families, start and perpetrate almost all wars. Men are significantly more disruptive, more destructive, more competitive, more egotistical and less collaborative. Men in the western world are also becoming less fertile.

Meanwhile, little by little, and with the certainty of a geological event more women take on the mantles of power our civilisation affords…

and in my view our species needs that to happen in order to survive.


some time in the future is it just conceivable there might be many more women than men?

And would you girls miss us?

Hmmmmmm! There’s a full moon out there! I’m going to go out and have a good howl at it!

Get all that endangerment out of my system!


Anyone want to howl back?

lkuwet 74M
290 posts
11/19/2013 1:08 am

I have this intuitive feeling that is going to happen, women will rule the world one day. Sexually they already do, imo.

warmandsexy52 replies on 11/19/2013 4:36 am:
You could well be right my friend

Thanks for visiting and leaving a comment

Lueznaz 66F

11/18/2013 7:05 am

Yes, we need men other than for procreation, but also for satisfying human needs. kisses {=}


warmandsexy52 replies on 11/19/2013 4:33 am:
As we men need women

If Shakespeare was around today wouldn't these make a marvellous end-lines to much ado about nothing or one of his other comedies?

warm xx

RobynMS 65F  
44 posts
11/18/2013 12:06 am

I don't know if we need men, but I certainly enjoy them!

warmandsexy52 replies on 11/19/2013 4:24 am:

News I love to hear!

warm xx

BBC4BBcouple 46M/41F
96 posts
11/17/2013 11:35 pm

without men there would be no cock to suck....

Black Women ONLY Please !!!!

warmandsexy52 replies on 11/19/2013 4:21 am:
That's so true

And so welcome to hear!

warm xx

LadyLuck2 63F  
8844 posts
11/17/2013 10:56 pm

Many of the abortions being performed in the US are based upon gender. Female babies are not wanted which is a shame.

As for men, I can't imagine a world without men. I adore smart and sexy men! They're so much fun! I'd be lost without having a man to kiss.

Never ignore those who care for you
you will have lost diamonds
while you were collecting stones

warmandsexy52 replies on 11/19/2013 4:18 am:
Lady, you are lucky indeed for we men

I didn't know that females were being selectively aborted in the US today. That's horrific!

warm xx

KtMnDu 68M
6214 posts
11/17/2013 6:42 am

I tend to think that procreation is a inherent survival mechanism, and as such, with women doing the actual reproduction, a few men would suffice for many, many women in order to get that job done........

Since humans have the ability to separate sex from procreation, women do not NEED men to find some level of sexual entertainment......but I like to believe that women WANT men.........

warmandsexy52 replies on 11/19/2013 4:12 am:
Hmmmm! Will there ever be toys that replace the boys?

I guess not too soon

redmustang91 60M  
9629 posts
11/17/2013 5:59 am

In China there is already gender selection by selective aborting of females... Leading to an excess of males. Generally the yin and yang makes heterosexual sex more interesting to most...

warmandsexy52 replies on 11/19/2013 4:10 am:
Hmmmmm! That comes from a well-established set of cultural values. I wonder if there is a break-point at which those values will go through a major change. After my time away it's great to see you still here, red, and thanks for visiting

akaash321 31M
14 posts
11/16/2013 9:50 pm

This is an interesting post!

warmandsexy52 replies on 11/19/2013 3:57 am:
Thank you for visiting and making a kind comment

kinkyfem73 47F

11/16/2013 8:51 pm

Even though men can be frustrating, stubborn and dense at times~ I would really miss them!!!

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warmandsexy52 replies on 11/19/2013 3:56 am:
Dearest kinky - how on earth did you figure out my finer points:

warm xx

sweet_VM 62F
81036 posts
11/16/2013 5:16 pm

I think I would miss Men the most! So you love biology.. why your so smart! hugs V

Become a blog watcher sweet_vm

warmandsexy52 replies on 11/19/2013 3:47 am:
I love everything to do with life

And for a "smart" guy I've done my share of dumb things!


warm xx

lil_whimsical 50F  
8790 posts
11/16/2013 5:02 pm

We women could take over the world if we would just support each other, stop back-stabbing each other, and stop being petty and stupidly competitive over men.

warmandsexy52 replies on 11/19/2013 3:42 am:
Much as I love womankind I've got to confess that's quite a big if

warm xx

sexysixties2 72F  
38998 posts
11/16/2013 12:48 pm

Interesting. It might explain why I have 50+ cousins....all born in a time of instability in the world and only 4 of us are females.

I think I would miss men.

"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~

warmandsexy52 replies on 11/19/2013 2:26 am:
I've often wondered how we might ultimately be affected by our biology. Maybe we'll be one step ahead with our technology, but maybe technology itself is an extension of the natural world - like sperm banks making a large proportion of men redundant.

I'm glad we would be missed - maybe that's our salvation

warm xx

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