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wet_n_restless 38F
33 posts
5/29/2020 5:24 pm
Frustrated

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clittywhisperer1 56M
1356 posts
5/29/2020 8:18 pm

hey i can't even get my wifes engine started let alone have sex and shes 4 ft away . i won't take this very long .had it before it's demoralizing


bman21652 68M  
17 posts
5/29/2020 8:29 pm

Frustrated. My wife stopped having sex with me 10 years ago.


legs334 51M/46F  
1 post
5/29/2020 8:43 pm

I have had the same experience xx


philipSdriver21 36M
5 posts
5/29/2020 8:48 pm

Starting to think this site is for lesbians only I rarely get messaged lol


wet_n_restless 38F
10 posts
5/29/2020 9:25 pm

I get plenty of messages - usually a one liner. Anything after "making the date"
and they disappear. I

Just a few months ago I was able to make multiple dates per day if I wanted too.


HornyOldFucker76 63M
121 posts
5/29/2020 9:49 pm

Nobody local wants an old chubby guy. I feel your pain.


ULIXBIG 65M
7805 posts
5/29/2020 10:00 pm

You are not alone! I'm frustrated too ...


Suckspussygood3 36M
19 posts
5/29/2020 10:11 pm

Right


thick_thunder 40M
14 posts
5/29/2020 11:27 pm

Hang in there. Good guys cum on girls who are wet.


Humsome 65M
37 posts
5/30/2020 12:47 am

I love chubby guys, hairy chest is a plus


4kixs59 59M  
14 posts
5/30/2020 1:20 am

WET N RESTLESS, YOU ARE SMOKING HOT, AND THOSE TITS MAKE DROOL. JUST A LITTLE MORE PATIENT AND YOU WILL BE FUCKING AND SUCK AND MANY MEN AND MAYBE A FEW WOMEN VERY HAPPY btw i AM pETER


dogslife2live01 68M
1974 posts
5/30/2020 2:54 am

oh what desperate scary times we live in...
desperate for the human touch
scared it may be our last
blame them not for their lust
fault them not for their fears
and
one
day
this too will pass

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


lyavu 47F  
1346 posts
5/30/2020 3:21 am

I have been told am not attractive enough. Trust me am in the same boat as you . i don't know what it takes to have a man gaiin interest in you..


JustLookn439 54M

5/30/2020 6:13 am

From what I've experienced few really go all the way to a meet, let alone playdate. I've HAVE gotten some responses, but most chat for a few exchanges, with long pauses between (probably juggling multiple conversations OR the site's IM just sucks) and then they disappear. I've had several send friend requests, but then never can get in touch by any means.
Here is MY take: While there are a handful of real WOMEN interested in meeting, the vast majority are "entertainers". Some may even be sponsored by the site for luring men to pay for Gold. Others just blog and chat with no interest beyond that (exhibit A...look at the blogs here...most never return to interact after the initial post)
The MEN on here are mostly bi or are married/attached and unhappy, but not willing to take a chance.
BOTH genders are really looking for reassurance they are still attractive to the other gender....and that is ALL they want.


JustLookn439 54M

5/30/2020 6:16 am

    Quoting lyavu:
    I have been told am not attractive enough. Trust me am in the same boat as you . i don't know what it takes to have a man gaiin interest in you..
If you have been told that based on the 3 pics I can see, then they are saying that to justify not meeting because they CAN'T meet as they are married! Granted, I can't see your face, but still....


Hawkfan533333 30M
652 posts
5/30/2020 7:09 am

I here many women and couples having the same problem, and I dont get it. It's not like we dont all enjoy, and know how to have sex, and if your a guy whith performance anxiety get a viagra, or one of the hundreds of over the counter pills that are the same thing, and boom you will be hard as a rock, and if you jump the gun, I would imagine you will b back in business very quickly.

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JustLookn439 54M

6/1/2020 7:18 pm

You have me rather confused! I JUST read your comment on another blog that suggested you had a steady boyfriend/playmate after working through a "stable" of at least 6 men to get to your soulmate. So, why the frustration?


wet_n_restless replies on 6/3/2020 6:58 pm:
*had stable* - yes. boyfriend - yes.

I'm 38, he's 62. He can't keep up with the Nymph - suggested this site. Figured it would be a good way to "take the edge off". Unfortunately, not being able to find a regular playmate or(lately) an playmate doesn't take the edge off - it only increases the frustration.

fashionablegma 77F
7659 posts
6/2/2020 1:24 am

Oh yes getting more common now,use to be a good site but now when someone requests a chat god only knows where they came from as they never looked at your profile or blog in case of standard members to read through,you send a reply,then they seem to ghost you,it a bit like stalking someone,once they reply,you guys seem to lose your nerve,bit like it use to be when getting to know someone for a few months,you arrange to meet and they never show up


JustLookn439 54M

6/2/2020 6:05 am

    Quoting fashionablegma:
    Oh yes getting more common now,use to be a good site but now when someone requests a chat god only knows where they came from as they never looked at your profile or blog in case of standard members to read through,you send a reply,then they seem to ghost you,it a bit like stalking someone,once they reply,you guys seem to lose your nerve,bit like it use to be when getting to know someone for a few months,you arrange to meet and they never show up
Part of the reason people don't read profiles is because we just can't, unless we pay for GOLD. Why we don't pay for GOLD is because we don't trust the site to give us our money's worth. Fakes have overtaken the site, IM doesn't work, GOLD members still can't communicate with standard members, ...unless we pay even MORE to allow that.
Then an enormous percentage of the handful of women on this site state they are only here to blog and chat. I'd guess that men and women use this site for opposing purposes. Women like to blog and chat....men look to meet. Those goals are incompatible.


wet_n_restless 38F
10 posts
6/3/2020 6:54 pm

    Quoting JustLookn439:
    Part of the reason people don't read profiles is because we just can't, unless we pay for GOLD. Why we don't pay for GOLD is because we don't trust the site to give us our money's worth. Fakes have overtaken the site, IM doesn't work, GOLD members still can't communicate with standard members, ...unless we pay even MORE to allow that.
    Then an enormous percentage of the handful of women on this site state they are only here to blog and chat. I'd guess that men and women use this site for opposing purposes. Women like to blog and chat....men look to meet. Those goals are incompatible.
I admit, I'm looking for one thing: sex. I already have a relationship, don't need or what another unless I find someone who can deal with my hectic schedule and wants a NSA full time


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