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If not a "booty call", then what....?  

whysaywhat1 40F
54 posts
3/3/2018 7:36 am
If not a "booty call", then what....?


So, by my definition (no dictionary usage here, just my understanding of it), a "booty call" is a late night call for the purposes of getting laid only.

If a person tells you that you aren't a booty call, yet only wants you to arrive late at night to have sex....what is it? It certainly is not a relationship at that point.

Relationships are work...they include at least knowing a friend or two. At bare minimum, leaving the house together occasionally and not being afraid to run into someone you might know and introducing the person you are with.

Am I wrong?

whysaywhat1 40F
36 posts
3/3/2018 10:12 am

I suppose I should quantify it better...I meant to say “dating” not relationship. I realize they’re all relationships with differing “rules”, but they should be agreed upon ones.


New2Midlo 48M  
386 posts
3/3/2018 1:47 pm

If it quacks like a duck, it's almost certainly a duck, regardless of how hard someone tries to convince you otherwise. In this case, yes, it's a booty call.

Can I take it you're looking for something more?


wantaplay8 67M
5607 posts
3/3/2018 3:17 pm

yep...set understanding of what is. Someone stopping by just to get laid is not a mental wanting relationship.


whysaywhat1 40F
36 posts
3/3/2018 5:39 pm

I’m of the duck theory opinion myself, just tired of being told “no, that’s not it at all” when it clearly IS just like that. I always want more than I have, that’s human nature. Not in the situation, not anytime soon.


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