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wickedcat2006 45F  
534 posts
10/22/2017 7:20 pm
that was my ex !!!

we all have been in relationships from the first crush to the wedding . we dont care if you are partner number 24 or 345, ( high school to present)

but should your partner(married) disclose if he/she has slept with your boss, best friend, neighbour, car mechanic/plumber ,doctor or favourite restaurant owner/ chef or anyone that you meet on a regular basis?
YES, i want to know
NO, i do not want to know

discreteSteve62 52M
2077 posts
10/23/2017 11:43 am

I kind of lean toward Yes, I want to know, because if she tells me that she's fooled around with someone that pretty much gives me permission to do a bit of the same. But in some cases I might not want to know; sometimes that might just be icky to think about. In that case, I suppose I'd rather just not know who it was, just that it happened and that I have a pass for an equal amount of outside fun.

But I don't actually think she'd fool around without permission anyway, and I wouldn't either.

cozzycouple 62M/63F  
536 posts
10/25/2017 1:34 am

I tend to agree a little with discretesteve. Idf it was everyday people that you met it would be nice to ".know that they know" If it was that they had sex with her before hand that is ok but too the issue of her having had sex with one person while you were with her. At least in your mind you wont feel "out /indifferent" when dealing with them and you dont need to bring it up. They havent got something on you. And you should know.

zeke53028 61M  
1110 posts
10/25/2017 9:53 am

Yes....I don't like anyone thinking they're getting something over on me. I've been divorced for several years and all the women I get involved with can know anything and everything. No secrets. I play on occasion with several women now and they all know about the others. Some have played together. One is married to a friend and he's OK with it, but I must hear from him verbally that it's OK. No email, no text.

Otis_Good 68M
3509 posts
10/25/2017 10:31 pm

Doctor oh hell yes free medical for life .

Somanyusernames1 43M
17 posts
10/26/2017 2:04 pm

Maybe? it would likely be on a case to case basis.

Bull_mature 58M
41 posts
10/29/2017 10:34 am

one would like to know
basically to avoid uncomfortable situations
and remove the fear factor or possible blackmail

powercaps716 64M
33831 posts
10/31/2017 3:45 pm

i guess i want to know but deep down inside , i don't think i would want the answer.

candylicker_6t9 59M
317 posts
11/12/2017 8:15 am

Absolutely, and you should do the same. I believe in full disclosure. I know that is contrary to most but openness and honesty keeps down most of the drama.

rocky2774 46M
566 posts
11/12/2017 8:20 pm

I m not interested in that.. I am more interested in what i get..



LakeRidgeBBWSeek 60M
3751 posts
7/17/2018 7:17 pm

My last marriage was an 'open' marriage, and I was acquainted with most of her playmates over the 6 yrs we were married. She usually didnt no mine however, but new of them at least !

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