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Finding the diamond in the rough  

wildgemini2005 62F
132 posts
11/30/2013 1:48 pm
Finding the diamond in the rough

I've been around a long time on this site. I've been lucky to meet a few really great guys, but I believe that's because I've always been selective.

For me, there has to be some sort of connection, not only physically but mentally.

I've been patient, through the lean times when I didn't think it was possible to find a person who ticks both boxes.

That's why if you averaged out the number of meets I've had over time on here it wouldn't add up to that many.

Over the last couple of years I've been on the verge of giving up on this site many times, but haven't. There has been the enigma that is the whirlwind called 'Arthur' and now I have met someone who I think I will call 'Geo'. If he reads this I hope that will make him smile....... and he smiles alot!

Although this is very new, I think expectations have been exceeded, on both sides (I hope!). A genuine physical and mental connection.

It won't be easy as he has a very demanding job and won't always be around, but I'd like to think we can meet up when he is around.

For me it has always been quality over quantity and compromise is part of life. I think it might be worth it.

Now I just have to rest and recouperate........

KtMnDu 68M
6214 posts
11/30/2013 5:53 pm

There is this learning curve here....the frustration initially gets to be too much....we drift away, only to return later with a little different focus......better, but still a bit short......but then, we kind of cross over......there is a patience required, we know better, both about ourselves and that which we seek......and then we start to see them....they come around and something is different......and even though it's early in the process, we seem to sense it, and it seems clear......

All the best to you and Geo...........

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