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Posted:Aug 27, 2016 9:32 am
Last Updated:Aug 28, 2016 11:40 am

The blogs are just becoming stressful anymore. The new rule is that the blog doesn't show up on the first page until someone comments on it, which means that people are adding the first comment just to be seen. Self advertising at its best I suppose.

To me the blogs in here are a method of self expression. Sometimes I vent, sometimes I preach, sometimes I just share experiences. Other people do different things. I personally do not care much for blogs that post online porn pics, but I cannot stop them and other people seem to like them. I like the blogs with other real people sharing their stories and personal pics.

And of course there are the Blog Wars. I really do not get this personally. Why can we not all share openly without attacking each other? If you don't like someone else's blog, don't read it. That is my opinion.

At the end of the day, this site is what you make of it I suppose. When it becomes too stressful to maintain a profile on here, I will just delete everything and be done with it. I went close to a month without gold membership and last weekend I spent the time to earn two weeks of gold again. And I just do not know if it is really worth the efforts. So we will see what all I do over the next few weeks.
First time Nudist
Posted:Aug 22, 2016 2:53 pm
Last Updated:Nov 25, 2016 2:08 pm

(This pic is not from this story)

I finally went to a nudist camp for the first time yesterday. My wife went along and that amazed me.

The camp we went to was 21 and over. I knew it was known partly for having a lot of swingers, I also knew my wife would not do anything with that. Still, I didn't want to go to other local places. Of course this one was around 90 miles away.

Once we got there I figured my wife would chicken out. She said she wasn't going strip right away. We walked around a pond, set up a pop up tent and started to relax. I figured what the hell and stripped. It was early and no one was really around or up yet. it was just odd being naked in public, knowing that it was okay and nerve racking about if someone saw. My wife started off topless and put on a robe. After about 20 minutes she took off her pants and just had the thin robe and panties on. I saw some propel walk by at a distance and they were still clothed. I was still nervous and wondering if I had the right place. I had seen one guy standing naked at the shower on the way in though. And a couple drove past naked on a golf cart, so I figured I was okay.

A guy walked past and said hi to my wife and I. I was fully naked, she just had the robe and panties. The robe was open enough to see her breasts. He talked for a few minutes and walked off. He came back around 10 minutes later, not wearing pants. He asked if we were in the "lifestyle". My wife, thinking he meant nudist, quickly said yes. As he came closer I explained it was our first time as nudists and that we were not swingers. He thanked me and walked off.

We walked that back trails to the dunes. I was naked and still wondering if it was really okay. Another couple drove past on a gold cart, and they were dressed. I stood there as they stared at me and drove past. The guy that approached us earlier had also started to follow us. He was fully naked now. My wife was a little creeped out by him. We walked some more and he stopped following.

We found a place to lay down in the sun. My wife opened up the robe exposing her breasts. After a few minutes she said "I'm going for it" and took off the panties, which I honestly thought she would never do. She sunned herself on front and back. A few people drove past on golf carts, and I found I was hoping they would come by and look. Two people did. My wife put her robe back on to walk back, but left the panties off. She did tie the robe in the front but was still open enough for her breasts to come out on occasion.

When we walked back to the car we had only been there about 3 and a half hours. My wife had a migraine and wanted to head back, but did admit that this was better than she thought it would be and talked about coming another day when she was feeling better. We got dressed as people were around, which my wife took off the robe and was open to everyone as she got dressed.

I had a good time and wanted to stay longer, but I knew it was a lot for my wife and didn't want to push her. But she is open to trying it again. She admitted that it was good feeling the sun all over. So I hope that we get another chance to go. She will never swing, and I won't be able to do anything with her around, but it is still going to be fun.
Just hanging out
Posted:Aug 14, 2016 9:40 am
Last Updated:Aug 28, 2016 4:13 pm

I haven't been in here much lately. Work has been crazy. Home life has been crazy. And I just kind of wonder what the point is to staying in here. I really don't even have time to read the blogs much. I come in for a few minutes and I am out again. I also lost my Gold membership and haven't done much to get it back. So I am just hanging around and debating what I want to do at this point.
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New toys
Posted:Jul 23, 2016 2:29 pm
Last Updated:Jul 26, 2016 7:53 pm

I did order some new toys. I decided on the glass butt plug set. I really enjoy the glass toys I have now because of the weight and the ease to clean them. I have tried all three of them but don't have many pics yet.

I did have the largest one in for an entire cam show this morning. It was great playing with it on cam. Sliding it in and out as people wanted to see how big it was. It fit in well, but I think tomorrow I will play more with the medium sized one. The small one fit in with no effort, but would probably be good to wear over to a play date. I will have to play some more and get a feel for what each one works best for.
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Throwing out old toys
Posted:Jul 9, 2016 1:34 pm
Last Updated:Jul 16, 2016 12:42 pm

The toy in the picture is one I threw out about a year ago. Today I threw out my original butt plug.

I probably got the butt plug in 2001 or 2002, so it was old. It was a blue jelly plug (I think that is what it was called anyway). I was still experimenting a lot with my ass at the time and not sure what all I liked. I knew I wanted to try a plug and decided to buy one. I went to one of the local sex shops at the time, and it was the more skeevy place in town. It was also cheaper than the other place I had been to.

I looked at the plugs available. They started at the think half inch, and worked up to the 2 inch. After some thought I decided on the two inch (remember that I was experimenting and did not know what I was doing). My logic, questionable as it was" was that one: it was cone shaped and would slide in, and two: I wanted to work up to that anyway so why not start there. The lady who ran the store looked at it when I brought it up to the counter, looked me over for a minute, and asked if I bought the right one. I told her it was a gag gift for a friend, which was my go to line whenever I bought a toy in a sex shop. I am sure many other people have used this lie as well.

So I get the toy home and open it up. I had fingered my ass, and had a toy called the Anal Newcummer, that at its widest was 1 inch. I had not used it much but with time I could get it all in. Now I had 2 inches to conquer.

The first three times I tried it I didn't get close. It hurt and I just was not getting there. I started reading some articles online and tried stretching first with fingers and mostly just played around. After a few weeks, I finally got the whole thing in my ass. It still didn't feel great, but I did it.

The plug sat in a box for a while until I moved into my current home. One night I decided to try it out again and just did not get far. I had a 7 inch dildo that was 1.5 inches wide and struggled with that too. I was beginning to think that smaller was better for me. That and I only got to play with them about once every other month. I only used them when I had the house a lone, which was not often. I also had not figured out a good way to clean them and leave them out to dry without people finding them.

I did eventually find toys I liked. I am totally into glass toys as they clean easy and dry quickly. But I did not have any new plugs. I look at them online a lot and debate a new one. I decided today to pull out the old one and see how I could do with some experience.

The poor thing had been in a box for probably a decade. I knew I would have to clean it, but I was not ready for it to be oily and sticky from heat/thaw in a closet for many years. I tried cleaning it but decided that it was past its time and threw it away. I have since washed my hands four times and they finally don't feel sticky anymore. I have other toys in that box that I think are all just going to go once I inspect them more later.

So I am at the point where I need to look into a new one. I will look at the available options online and see what I decide on. If anyone has suggestions I would love to hear what works for other people.
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What to eat
Posted:Jun 16, 2016 3:10 pm
Last Updated:Jun 29, 2016 2:35 pm

Debating what to make for dinner. As my oven died yesterday the options have narrowed. I need to call a repair guy because I know nothing about how to fix an oven. Also, I haven't added a blog in a while, so I figured I was due. And as I am thinking about food, you get a banana pic. Enjoy.
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Back and confused
Posted:Jun 9, 2016 10:57 am
Last Updated:Jul 2, 2016 1:10 pm

I was out of town for a few days, and thus couldn't really check anything online. As it stands, I won't spend any real time in here until tomorrow.

As I remember, the current contest was supposed to be "Go Fuck Yourself". I made a video just for this. I tried posting it to my profile before I left town. After a couple of ailed attempts as my internet connection was being difficult I finally uploaded the video, just to have it denied for no reason that customer service could really explain. I have another vid on my profile I could post to the "Go Fuck Yourself" ideal which was my back up, but it isn't as good as the one where I fully dressed up.

While out of town I logged in long enough to see if I could post the back up vid, just to find out the contest is not what I remembered it being. Now it is why do you like us, or give us a testimonial/commercial. So either it changed or I somehow completely misread the entire thing.

Not sure If I am going to make another video or not. We will have to see.
Contest videos
Posted:May 28, 2016 9:56 am
Last Updated:May 29, 2016 7:37 am

I enjoy the contests on this site. I don't always enter, but when I can I normally do. The next contest is the "go fuck yourself" contest. Taking pics is easy, even if half of mine lately get denied for some reason. But taking a video is just a little more time consuming.

I have a video I did a year ago with one of my dildos that I never posted. Nothing too exciting honestly. I figured I would save that for a back up and will enter it anyway. But today I have the house to myself and wanted to do something else. I had been planning all week what I wanted to do.

So, of course, this morning I get up, shower, and suddenly my back locks up on me and I can hardly move. After some Advil and a few hours of sitting on the couch my back unlocked and I was feeling up to it.

So I dressed up, set up the camera, pulled out my favorite glass dildo, and filmed a 3.5 minute scene. I didn't take any side pics so you will have to wait until the actual video gets posted. After watching it once I think it is good. I do kind of wish I had an actual camera person instead of just a steady shot, but I manage with what I have.

Lets just hope that it doesn't get denied and actually sees the light of day.
Posted:May 22, 2016 6:50 am
Last Updated:Jul 2, 2016 1:10 pm

My wife and I have talked about going to a nudist camp for years. My wife has today off and decided last week that she would be willing to give it a go today.

I have researched what is locally available to us. While there is one about half an hour away, there is one about two hours away that is 21 and older and clothing optional that I thought was a better fit. I know my wife will be hesitant to go nude in public when other people are around. And being 21 and older it is a swinger crowd which I would have enjoyed more.

On Thursday she decided to see where the place is at even though I have been telling her forever now. It starts with "That is really out there", which is the first signal that we aren't doing this. I expected that. But she talks about going to the closer one for the day instead. I remind her that the closer one is not a clothing optional place but she says she will try it.

Friday night she is complaining that he sinuses are flaring up and that her allergies are triggered. So I focus on what does she want to do for Sunday as we both have the same day off which doesn't happen often. She still says the local camp.

Then last night she tells me that if it isn't too windy she is going to the beach before I get up. She always goes to the dunes on her days off. And when she goes on my days off, she isn't back until later in the afternoon. I just get stuck waiting and doing housework while she goes off to relax. And when she gets home, she won't want to go anywhere else because she will be too tired.

On top of all of that, she was being loud this morning and not letting me sleep.

Si I pretty much knew we were not going to the nudist camp. I am disappointed that she keeps playing these damned games and thinks it is funny. I am really frustrated that we both have the day off and she goes and does her own thing when we have been planning to spend the day together.
Fetish Contest
Posted:May 21, 2016 8:57 am
Last Updated:May 21, 2016 1:22 pm

I submitted some pics to the fetish contest this month. We will see if they get approved or not. I have two of me all dressed up and one of me tied up. I don't have many pics of me tied up, and the few I have aren't great. Of course, I need to see if they even get approved or not as all but one of my pics got approved for the last contest.
Cold Sunday in May
Posted:May 15, 2016 10:45 am
Last Updated:May 15, 2016 2:18 pm

So with the wind chill factored in it was near freezing last night. This pic is from a few years back, but it was also taken in late March if I remember correctly.

So we did not get snow here, but I know other people have. I would really like to have some outdoor fun but the weather is not cooperating much at all.

How is the weather for you?
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How to view
Posted:May 10, 2016 2:49 pm
Last Updated:Jul 2, 2016 1:09 pm

I know the site has glitches. This is nothing new. But this one I can't really figure out.

Like others, my Hotlist pretty much vanished. More than half of it was just gone. And I still have people that fall off of it. I figured I could look into it some or contact someone, but at the same time, how much trouble is it really worth?

And as I am finally catching up to the 21st century, I have a Kindle that I use to surf the web during commercial breaks while watching TV. I decided to check out AdultFriendFinder on the tablet and to my surprise, everything I was missing on the computer was there.

I am guessing there is some driver or compatibility issue involved, though for the life of me I am not getting it. If my profile and saved likes are all stored on the same server, I am not really sure why looking up my profile on the computer feels so neutered while on the tablet everything is still there.

Of course, I cold just be overthinking this.
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My Bum
Posted:May 1, 2016 9:00 am
Last Updated:May 10, 2016 2:50 pm

I am not sure what is up with the contest this month. This is one of my pics I submitted for the Bum contest. it is me, and that is my bum. It was rejected. I do not know why as it seems to cover all of the rules as far as I can tell. My profile pic was also denied, when that is one of the best pics pf my bum I have (I think anyway).

One of my pics was accepted. I submitted some others today to see if they get through. I am just working on the belief that my ass is so cute that it blows away most of the competition and has thus been banned to give others a fair chance.

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