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wrMercury 43M  
1038 posts
4/2/2016 12:15 pm
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I don't know why, but this seems to be coming up a lot lately in blogs that I read. What is the definition of being strait, gay, bisexual, etc. I had one guy tell me that bisexual doesn't exist and that it was a myth made up by gay men in the 70s to get strait men to fool around. I have been told that Strait men can suck other men and that does not make them bi. People ask me if I am bi all of the time and I say that I am. I play with men and women. I do some cross dressing but for me it is just a fun thing to do on occasion, not a lifestyle.

People are so quick to quantify themselves. Some of it is for a feeling of acceptance into a social group. Some of it is so that they can define themselves and their sense of self image. Other people create labels so that they can judge people according to their own worldview.

Some people will like this post. Others may well attack it. A lot of people will not take any notice of it at all. Lets be honest, I don't have a top blog or anything. And I highly doubt that I will change anyone's personal opinions. My general philosophy is that if everyone is willing and no one is being forced against their will, let people just be happy. I don't need to justify anything I do to others, and really you don't need to justify it to me. IF you are fighting to prove a point, are you doing it to reinforce your beliefs to yourself, or are you trying to prove it to others?

firedup_19 59M
1684 posts
4/2/2016 12:29 pm

I love women, and make love to them, with men it's more about the sex and passion. I don't think I could have a loving relationship with a man outside the bedroom, beyond great friendship. I would consider myself BI...


jar6962 59M/51F
653 posts
4/2/2016 12:36 pm

If you are going to label then I must be bi !!! LOL


wrMercury 43M  
1562 posts
4/2/2016 12:50 pm

    Quoting firedup_19:
    I love women, and make love to them, with men it's more about the sex and passion. I don't think I could have a loving relationship with a man outside the bedroom, beyond great friendship. I would consider myself BI...
I am largely the same.


wrMercury 43M  
1562 posts
4/2/2016 12:51 pm

    Quoting jar6962:
    If you are going to label then I must be bi !!! LOL
I don't want to label. but it seems to be the new norm.


pocogato12 69F  
36807 posts
4/2/2016 1:57 pm

everything seems to get a label these days

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wrMercury 43M  
1562 posts
4/2/2016 2:05 pm

    Quoting pocogato12:
    everything seems to get a label these days
Sad truth of life.


wrMercury 43M  
1562 posts
4/2/2016 2:31 pm

    Quoting CarbonRoadBike:
    Well I'm straight and I've never been gay or bi. My pastor said don't let anybody tell you what you are you know what you are, people just want to call you bi or gay because they've already relinquished who they are so they want to get everybody else to join them in their misery
I suppose that depends on if a person is miserable or not. I would hate to have misery assigned to me based on the beliefs of others.


KtMnDu 69M
6211 posts
4/3/2016 8:42 am

    Quoting CarbonRoadBike:
    Well I'm straight and I've never been gay or bi. My pastor said don't let anybody tell you what you are you know what you are, people just want to call you bi or gay because they've already relinquished who they are so they want to get everybody else to join them in their misery
How good it would be if we just were comfortable with who we are, and were allowed, without judgement from others, to seek that which we desire in our lives..........unfortunately, some here have their own personal misery to live with by denying who they really are, and as a result, will never truly be happy......


wrMercury 43M  
1562 posts
4/3/2016 8:44 am

    Quoting KtMnDu:
    How good it would be if we just were comfortable with who we are, and were allowed, without judgement from others, to seek that which we desire in our lives..........unfortunately, some here have their own personal misery to live with by denying who they really are, and as a result, will never truly be happy......
My thoughts exactly.


wrMercury 43M  
1562 posts
4/3/2016 9:55 am

    Quoting  :

Thank You


appleair_bi_69 60M  
6 posts
7/18/2020 3:10 am

Straight, Gay, BI, Lesbian, we are all humans!
Sex should be fun and enjoyable between two people, period!


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