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xdrearydancerx 33F
594 posts
6/14/2021 9:48 am
Is he the one? lol


So I went on a couple of dates recently. This is my first time doing this in a while. In 2019, I went on two dates the whole year and 2020 I had one date before the pandemic started. In that time frame, they were all horrible dates. I really haven't been feeling it in the past couple of years. And I have a very volatile feeling towards dating in general. I think it's because of all the problems I have with myself. My PCOS is making me very self conscious. I do not know where this will take me.

Anyway, I met this guy at a bar in Montrose. I believe we originally matched on Tinder and he added me to . I'm not sure what happened but we didn't chat for a long time and of course, forgot about each other. One day, he messaged me again on and asked me who I was. I told him we might have met on a dating app. After figuring out who the other person was, we started chatting and chatting everyday. We couldn't meet right away because he has an on call job and our schedules didn't match up anyway. Well, yesterday was finally the big day. lol

When we planned our date, I was afraid he would not show up or flake out. I know he is very shy. I am too. I must say I was pleasantly surprised when I met him. I thought he would be more inhibited. He did admit that he had a few drinks at a different bar before meeting me, which had loosened him up. And I have to say, I really enjoyed the conversation with him. I found him sweet and funny. Although, I did think he was probably just saying anything to get in my pants, like how pretty and sexy I am....blah blah blah. Anything to flatter me. "Oh, I went out with this girl before who was so conceited, and not even as pretty as you. She was just a basic white girl." Okay, buddy. lol

After a few drinks, I started to feel funny. I am certainly a lightweight drinker. I found it easier to talk to him and I felt very giggly and flirty. My head was almost spinning. We scooted closer to each other in the booth. I told him, "I want you to kiss me," as if I am a stupid . lol He told me to take a sip of his drink then he would kiss me. And that's exactly what happened. Heehee. For a while we just sat and cuddled, not speaking much and making out now and again. He was a great<b> kisser </font></b>and I REALLY wanted to have sex with him. I would have fucked his brains out. But I didn't want to ruin a nice time. It was bad enough that we were French kissing. I did have soaking wet panties when I got home, because of how horny I was.

For me, it was a good date but I feel guilty about kissing him like that our first time meeting. I don't know if he likes me. I think he was maybe a nice guy because he didn't ask to get a room with me or to go back to my place. But it's pointless to analyze first dates. The only thing I can do now is see if he shows further interest. This is always fun!! LOL I just tell myself, Mariam you are not getting any younger, he's pretty cute, four years younger than you, no , never married, has a good job, smart, polite, and sweet. If he asks you out again, just say yes!!! And please Mariam, don't do anything stupid!!



HAMONMAN 62M
12914 posts
6/14/2021 11:42 am

No, don't blow it Mariam ! !

Good luck with the next date.


Humanity peaked during the 20th century.
We can't even make a decent starter solenoid any longer.


hardguy0051 69M
462 posts
6/14/2021 1:17 pm

If he's as shy as you think, you might send him a message and tell him you really enjoyed your evening with him, and you hope he did as well.

Or something similar, just to nudge him a little.

Trust me: I remember you webcamming a few years ago. You're a very pretty young lady, and I wager that he can't get you out of his mind


powercaps716 65M
74944 posts
6/15/2021 8:09 am

glad you had a good time and maybe found someone, just let him know how you feel and that you want to see him again....he will come along if interested in you. got my finger crossed for you ....


xdrearydancerx 33F
297 posts
6/16/2021 10:41 pm

    Quoting powercaps716:
    glad you had a good time and maybe found someone, just let him know how you feel and that you want to see him again....he will come along if interested in you. got my finger crossed for you ....
Thanks but it turns out he is not interested in me. I noticed that he was slowly texting me less. And I asked him up front how he feels about me and if he wanted to continue dating. He said he didn't know. LOL I thought he might be different from other guys. But I'm wrong again and I feel like I could cry except this has happened to me so many times. I guess this is what I get for being too excited and kissing him right away.


hardguy0051 69M
462 posts
6/17/2021 8:49 am

    Quoting xdrearydancerx:
    Thanks but it turns out he is not interested in me. I noticed that he was slowly texting me less. And I asked him up front how he feels about me and if he wanted to continue dating. He said he didn't know. LOL I thought he might be different from other guys. But I'm wrong again and I feel like I could cry except this has happened to me so many times. I guess this is what I get for being too excited and kissing him right away.
In the words of the Prophets, "Don't give up until you drink from the silver cup."


xdrearydancerx 33F
297 posts
6/17/2021 9:08 am

On second thought, after talking to him more I think I will be patient with him. There might be something there. But I'm probably wasting my time again. lol


powercaps716 65M
74944 posts
6/19/2021 10:20 am

    Quoting xdrearydancerx:
    On second thought, after talking to him more I think I will be patient with him. There might be something there. But I'm probably wasting my time again. lol
well he didn't come out and say, NO. you have nothing but time, give him some time to think and figure it out... he may be the shy type..


BigOlTeddyBear44 58M
353 posts
6/21/2021 6:14 pm

I am interested in you!

Teddy


houstondude69 50M  
9 posts
6/22/2021 4:28 pm

How is it going with this guy? Are you still looking to meet?


Leegs2012 48M
86684 posts
6/24/2021 11:15 am

Hope all works out for you!!


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