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xdrearydancerx 33F
633 posts
8/22/2021 8:40 pm
More Than A One Night Stand?

I saw him again, the one I thought was a one night stand. I must say I was very surprised he asked me on a real date, or was more of a date than the first time we met!! LOL The first time, he came to my place to have sex and he spent the night too. Then I made him breakfast in the morning. After that he hardly texted me. I expected as much with a guy I didn't know very well and only had sex with. Then when he finally asked me out, two weeks had passed already. I mean, I was very happy he wanted to see me again but didn’t have high hopes with him, all things considered. I had to be cautious. I thought if anything, he probably just wants be fuck<b> buddies.

</font></b>Well, we met up for Mexican food and margaritas. It was a very nice dinner and easy conversation. He was a gentleman and so sweet. Uhhgg, he’s a cutie too. I already felt that way about him the first time we met too. When he was getting the check, I smiled and told him, “Wanna go to your car and make out now?” He was smiling too and said he wanted to watch a movie. He decided to take me to his place. Soon I found out that I had a very different sense of humor from him. When we stopped by the liquor store he was getting vodka. I joked and told him haha, you are Russian. He was annoyed. “I’m not Russian. I’m Polish. I’m proud of being Polish,” he said. Okay buddy, I am jooooking. Then later when we were in his car, he told me that he lives by himself but he used to have a roommate. I told him, “So you killed your roommate?” He got annoyed and said, “Should I date you?” I guess he didn’t like that joke either. LOL

When we arrived at his apartment, he made some drinks and we watched The Strangers on his couch. He seemed more interested in watching the movie. I think I wanted to have sex more than he did. Of course, we ended up making out, and slowly I took off my clothes one by one. Then we went to his bedroom. I should have just shut up during foreplay. He was touching my belly and told him don’t touch my fat rolls. I was joking again. Then as I was giving him a handjob, I said, “Now I’m touching your weiner.” LOL It was the wrong time to joke I guess. He was annoyed and said, “Mariam, I’m almost 30 years old. You are so immature. Blah blah blah blah. How can you be so sexy but you say things like that? Blah blah blah.” It made me feel embarrassed, so I turned away from him and faced the wall. We ended up having some serious discussion. He didn’t even give me a straight answer if we are<b> buddies </font></b>or what. It was probably too early to have that discussion but I wasn’t asking to be his girlfriend. After that we did have amazing sex although he didn’t cum. The first time we had sex, he didn’t cum either. He explained to me, that it’s a problem that he has. It is very difficult for him to orgasm during sex. It made me feel bad because most men I have sex with are quick to climax. They even say they have to stop themselves from cumming because I am so tight, and they want to keep having sex. I never cum either during sex but that is more normal for women. Anyway, we cuddled for a while and talked. He said he wanted me to spend the night. I didn’t want to leave him but I had stupid work early the next day.

We were about to leave so he could drive me home and then he asked if I could do him a favor and give him a blowjob. I pushed him onto the bed and took off his shorts. I gave him the sloppiest blow job ever. I think he liked it although he didn’t even cum. I like to give blowjobs but I’m not a machine. I cannot do it for a whole hour!! LOL He was so sweet when he dropped me off at my house. He asked if he could walk me to the door and I told him it’s okay. So he kissed me goodbye and he was giving me that look again. No guy has ever looked at me like that. Well, a few have but they were gross guys.

I don’t know what to make of this besides this is another massive fail for me. I just wasn’t expecting all of this. From the moment he started sending me silly messages on Hinge to us having sex the first time we met. I wasn’t expecting to like him so much and I wasn’t expecting see him again. I couldn’t help feeling smitten by him. He’s a babe and sweet guy. Just the way he calls me beautiful and sexy, and “my brunette” drives me crazy. Of course, he’s probably just saying that because I’m sleeping with him. I have a nice time with him too. But we are different and he does not like my sense of humor. He doesn’t a lot of attention to me when we aren’t together. He doesn’t me much and took him a while to ask me out. I wonder if he even wants to hang out for our birthdays. Our birthdays are the same in September. Girl, he’s just not that into you.

Lastly, I feel like this happens too often. I always fall for guys too soon, before there is any relationship. I like them too much and I sleep with them too soon. And of course, they don’t feel the same way about me. That’s why they disappear and they probably never liked me that much to begin with. Surely, I can’t keep doing this when I’m in my 50s. lol

powercaps716 65M
75341 posts
8/23/2021 5:17 am

i've always said that a good relationship is a work in progress, now your begin to understand that. conversation spending quality time together  no matter what you do. its time well spend. you get to know one another more and more.  keep it  up and put in the work , sounds  like he may be the one for you., good luck

xdrearydancerx replies on 8/23/2021 10:47 am:
You think so? I want to keep him but everything seems iffy. I say yes but it's up to him.

houstondude69 50M  
9 posts
8/23/2021 1:05 pm

You're too funny

BigOlTeddyBear44 58M
354 posts
8/23/2021 1:28 pm

I am still interested in meeting!


blondie6997 64M  
44 posts
9/8/2021 8:22 pm

You are adorable .. and awesome. Do not change .. stay the way you are. I love this post of yours.

xdrearydancerx replies on 9/11/2021 9:13 am:
Thank you. I am now dating this guy. Things seem very iffy but I'm just trying to enjoy it while it lasts.

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