I’m looking for a fwb type situation, no strings attached, but not a one hit wonder. Something that is mutually satisfying to us both. Sex gets better with repetition for sure. Someone who when the mood strikes can call and plan out a play date, both get what we need, and be on with the rest of the day. I’m very open minded, ddf and hiv-. Definitely looking for the same. Very oral, and love to explore/experiment. Love light kink, assplay,( both give and receive) and just about anything else we can come up with. There should be absolutely no judgment in the bedroom, if you want something, ask, and I will provide without hesitation or judgment, I also expect the same. I love both giving and receiving direction too, what good is it if what we are doing for each other isn’t working, but are too afraid to say anything? K i k Nibowhunter