8/2/2016 I have to say... I sometimes send friend invites a little quick. I apologize if that upsets anyone, but I do read the profiles and make sure I am what they are looking for and vice versa... Often when I hop on Aff I'm just looking around for what I may be interested in, either close by or a city I may be visiting soon. Often I do not send a message immediately, sometimes I am short on time while on my phone, and other times I may have had a couple of drinks... I've found that I prefer sending a message that is a little more thought out, and sometimes refers to something in the profile I am writing to. No offense taken if I am declined... And again, I hope I'm not offending anyone. Update: 8/1/2016 Thought I should add a few things to my profile... I suppose I am looking for something a little different with different people... Lol! First off... I mention that I'm open minded later, and that includes more than experimenting with fantasies/kinks or any kind of sex... I am "for the most part" not limited by age, body type, or race... There is a lot that I am attracted to... Mentally and physically. ;) I would love to meet a sexy, outgoing, and mostly laid back woman who can be both an exhibitionist and a voyuer... But mostly wants to be part of the action. ;) A woman that enjoys pushing my boundaries and likes to have hers pushed too. I'd love a girl that is extremely adventurous... Someone that enjoys trying out new ideas and kinks, but doesn't need to be sexually uninhibited all the time. I suppose I usually approach sex with others like everyone is equal, and obviously respectful. But I can take on a dominant or submissive role too... And I would like to explore both aspects... Someone that is open to a "partner in crime" type situation. And if the right girl comes a long I'm absolutely up for something long term and/or serious... I think swinging or playing in 3somes and 4somes with someone you care for adds another level to the intensity... :) I love couples too! With couples I prefer to get to know them, as I would want with anyone I might play with. I view them as friends inviting me into their sex life, not dissimilar to being a guest in someone's home... And I always try to be a good guest. :) I prefer couples that are openminded and uninhibited too. And I especially love the getting to know each other phase before playtime... The discussion that usually entails experiences, fantasies, kinks, and boundaries... I consider it a bit of foreplay that allows everyone to get to know each other a little better... And let's face it... Sex is way better when a repor has been developed, and you have a better idea of how to please someone specifically (at least that's my opinion)... ;) And anyone else that may not fall into the first two categories... Would definitely be more of a partner in crime or friends with benefits scenario... As with every partner, I like to get to know you a bit before moving on... And preferably in per, but I understand those that would like to move slower due to safety or comfort level... :) Update: Jan 21, 2015 I think there are some misconceptions out there about all single guys... While I love sex and playing with sexy people, not all single guys are desperate. Be honest with me, and I promise I will be honest with you. I might surprise you with how easy going I am... Update: Jan 19, 2015 if you read this far and want to get in touch!---use the term at the bottom that I ask you to include in any message to me, with the beginning 3 letters of this update... ;) Hoping a few readers will understand... :p I'm a bit of a nudest as long as everyone is comfortable with it... :) The best time for me to play is on the weekends, early afternoons to early evenings... I'm open to meeting other times (e.g. late night), but that is a little tougher for me to do. Holidays and vacations are a different story though... ;) Single guy back in Houston after several years... From what I'm told, I look like the stereotypical all American white guy. Lol! Whatever that means... :-P I have experience swinging and look forward to getting into it again... I'm a very easy going guy that looks to ensure that playtime is fun for all involved. I am quite open minded, and enjoy having my limits pushed. I am very discrete and would appreciate the same in return. Also! I love to know when someone has read my entire profile... Please include the term "easie8" as spelled if you have read this far... :) I'm not looking for anyone that is interested in sex that is either vindictive or secretive to their partner. I prefer all to be involved by either participating, watching, or at the very least knowing about it... ;) ---- Feel free to ask if you have any questions---- :)

My Ideal Person Mostly looking for women and couples...

I get along with most people regardless of their background. Additionally, I am attracted to many types... I realize that "athletic, average, and petite" are subjective terms, so a little variation is no big deal. As long as a person is not overly obese, I'm usually totally fine.

I love one on one sex, but I would prefer that anyone I meet with would be into or willing to try group play (3somes or 4somes)... It's my favorite. Lol!

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I'll get into this when I have more time... I have a few.
;)

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming, Role Playing, Threesomes, Voyeurism, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Not really... I prefer fantasizing about realistic scenarios
and people.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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