FOR THE ONES WHO SAY THEY'VE READ PROFILE - this'll sum it up: i have a man. the only man i want is as a third, but you gotta go thru MY MAN to get to me (freakswithcapes - message him directly & i MIGHT be impressed you read this far) I'm very outspoken, yet easy going. I don't do drama, I avoid bullshit. I treat people the way I want to be treated. I'm almost always happy. When I'm not, I'll go off by myself and deal with it. I don't believe in bitching, it creates resentment. Besides, it’s a waste of time cuz I don’t believe in changing people. Accept them for how they are, or move the hell on. Out there, somewhere, is someone waiting for those traits you consider to be defects; cuz they consider them ideal. There's way too many people in the world & I refuse to mold someone into something they are not. I'll put it all out there from the beginning cuz the quicker we can find those "defects", the quicker we can move on & find the "ideals".

My Ideal Person Ideally?
Ideally they'd be honest and not steal. I'm much more likely to pick the ugly one with the big heart than the gorgeous one with a black soul. Character before charisma (came up with that shit myself)

So aaaanyway: havent been with a woman in a very long time and its overdue. I'm not a girly girl but I'm no bull dyke either. I like women that look like women but arent scared to get their hair messed up

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, listening/watching others, being listened/watched by others

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

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