I have been an avid weightlifter for decades and am in excellent shape. Not as big as I was at 35, but it's a long journey. I don't know many who want to stay that big and do that much work at my age. Yeah, I know...where's the pix? I don't have that kind of ego. Sorry I'm just a man off the street bodybuilder. I knew all the greats in the early 80's from working out at the original World Gym in Venice. A lady? Well, I prefer a partner who is also athletic, or at least takes care of her health. I don't care if she smokes grass or is a social drinker, but no cigarettes. I like runners. I don't think there is anything you can do, to improve your looks, ladies, more than what G-d has given you. You're all so beautiful to me. So, no tattoos, please. I like to take care of a woman with a lot of foreplay, and massage. I have an MA in Counseling Psych. and I study Astrology, and they work well together. Want your chart done? ;)

My Ideal Person I don't have an ideal woman so fade the descriptions. They come in all shapes, sizes and colors. The main thing I am looking for is chemistry. I'm pretty open sexually, but there has to be a fair amount of chemistry. I'm here for those who are real. I have no patience with "California vagueness". Straight talk, over a mimosa with playfulness and spontaneity would be refreshing instead of Starbucks first dates. You'll have to let me know why I should be with you, so don't be shy. So, as my favorite comedian, Joan Rivers, would say,"Can we talk?"

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Tex Beneke, Buddy Rich, Sonny Rollins, George Harrison, Elizabeth
Cotton

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Britney Spears...need I say more?

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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