It's taken me some time to figure out what the hell I'm actually looking for on here. I think I can finally zero it down just a little. I am in a relationship, not married, but I would like to find a FWB. The friend part is very important to me. Hopefully that friend is attached to a big dick but not a requirement. I am definitely in need of the benefits but I want to actually like the person. A sense of humor is a must and a firmer hand in the bedroom would absolutely be a plus. I will have to at least have a conversation before I agree to meet you and since I do have someone at home, meetings will have to be a little more planned......sometimes it's hard to get away at the last minute but I am absolutely willing to meet. If any of that interests or sounds like you then get ahold of me. BTW, I hate the IM so I tend to ignore it..... messages work best.