I thought it was time to update the profile. First off I have not posted a face picture because of what I do. Some find it hard to wrap their minds around being discreet. If you want a good face pic then just ask me for it and I can share it with you you. Other than that it will not be on my profile. Please respect that. I'm a real well educated professional who values things other than sex. Sex has it's place but it does not consume me. Life is bigger than that. I love to have fun as well as the next per but I have ordered priorities. I am drug and disease free. I am laid back but can be very outgoing. I'm a per who knows what he wants and need to be happy. I respect others and in return expect respect. This is AFF but being brown mature people is almost universal. Notice I said almost lol. Let me talk about distance. If distance is a problem for you I can understand 100%. My take is unless you live on Mars why discard real possibilities. I hope you get that. Life is to short to just cut options out over technicalities. So be who you are and where you are, and if we click then fine. By day I am passive aggressive, but at night under the right lights I can be more assertive. If you need more clarification of that statement ask. I have many curiosities and try not to limit my life experiences over a few hangups. I have various hobbies that include cooking and poetry. Yeah go figure right lol. I'm a retired military man who stays in shape in order to be able to enjoy life and its pleasures. So if you are the bit intrigued then please reach out and get to know me I'm comfortable with me. So please don't judge me or my intentions by what you see from the surface, dig a little bit. You just might think I'm ok lol.

My Ideal Person I like people who like to laugh and have fun, life can't be serious all the time. Though there is a time and place to be. I like people who like to explore possibilities and go where the road leads you, even if the road is windy and bumpy at times. That's just life. I am looking for someone who will take time to know me and explore with me. If something really special comes out of it then awesome but at the end of the day if I made you smile and gained a friend then the meeting was well worth it. I could go on and on. If you want to know more about me and my ideal person feel free to ask. Until the I look forward to chatting with or maybe even meeting you. Be safe and have fun.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The middle of a park, An airplane, A remote wilderness spot, My desk at work

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've done it so many times that I've forgotten how to type with two hands.

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