Hi ladies, I'm a black male and divorced with adult ren who do not live with me. I live alone and can finally enjoy the peace and serenity of a house not filled with s. 😀 Now that I'm a couple of years out of my marriage and after experiencing this bitter-sweet (ok brutal) dating scene, I'm ready to try to limit the people who are in and out of my life. Simply put, just trying to find a per who is like-minded and share the same values that I have. Simple right? Sure it is. Lol! We all have baggage and I refuse to let any of those old, negative pessimistic, thoughts, waste one minute more of my time or get in the way of finding what I want and need to satisfy my quest for happiness. I won't settle for less. PERIOD! I have a good job and life continues to be good for me and I continue to receive many blessings and remain as optimistic as the day I was born. With the exception of maybe 10% of my life, I wouldn't change any of the other 90%. Well, I think I've said enough. If there's something that I said that maybe touches your heart & soul (not just your mind) and makes you think that you and I are a match, please don't hesitate to reach out to me. Let's not wait another second. BBJr😀 ------------ Ps. Good luck to us all!!!

My Ideal Person What I'm looking for is a person who enjoys sex as much as I do, w/out so many inhibitions regarding sex. A person who is loving, respectful and loyal. She doesn't have to be a beautiful 6 foot model, tight hot 22 year old with a killer body or even a rich enticing cougar. In my eyes, ALL WOMEN QUALIFY!!! Every woman brings at least one special, unique quality to the table. While others have several. I enjoy taking the time to find each and every one that makes her who she is. To me, that's the fun part of all new and lasting relationships.