After all this time , finally realized most people don't see or read the headline. So let me restate it here,, due to medical issues we have paused our search for physical meetings, but still are open to chat and discussions about the lifestyle. Things may change rapidly or may not. So being pushy or rude gets you nowhere but blocked. Adventurous couple looking for like minded couples and singles to be friends and to enrich our lives, in and out of bed. Non smokers and light drinkers, mostly the stay home type but do enjoy getting out, just not really the bar/club scene. She is fantastically intelligent, funny, and all around great, very oral, and very good at it. He is in the same vein, smart, funny, a caring lover. Our preference currently would rank single females first, followed by couples with bi females, single males, don't be pushy or crude, please do not hound us. If you send a message we'll check you out, and decide if we want to reply. Another preference is no black males, not a racial issue, just a personal choice. Likewise "couples" where the female seems to be never available for conversation or meeting, pass us by please. We are not Ken and Barbie but not trolls living under a bridge either, drug and disease free and intend to stay that way, so if you made it this far send us a message if curious or interested