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Ben_inthemood 49 / M
"The conversation between your fingers and someone else’s skin. This is the most important discussion"
Amsterdam, Netherlands
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Last Visit: More than 3 months
Member Since: October 26, 2008

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Ben_inthemood 49/M
Amsterdam, , Netherlands
I've been a member of AFF for some time. Like many good things, it takes time to immerse in all its pleasures and as a result I still thoroughly enjoy the excitement here. The most exciting part, for me at least, is getting to know you. Taking the time to groom a relationship. That feeling when summer roles around, you're standing at the sea side, knowing that the water is cold. You slowly take small strides into the water, you body reacts, you feel the cold. Two decisions rush through your mind, get out now or push on. The further you go, the better it gets, and before you know it, you're in deep and the warmth envelopes you. My mind is teemed with beautiful and exciting thoughts, fed through conversation and imagination. Like most starting conversations, questions follow questions follow questions -- however, once the questioning ends, the excitement begins. I am sexually very adventurous , I am not looking for commitment. I seek mutual sexual fun, online, by phone or any other modern form of communication, and real meets, when permitted or the situation allows it. Spontaneous meets, accidental encounters are the most exciting. I care and value. I am very respectful and expect the same from anybody else. In my experience, despite the feeling of wanting to meet that specific per here -- quite often after a few lines you know whether it's going somewhere, or going no where. Perally, I always like going somewhere, physically and mentally. My work brings me to many places, so I am internationally mobile.

My Ideal Person If you can relate to the above -- you're my ideal

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, My desk at work, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Food Play

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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  • 49 / male
  • Amsterdam, Netherlands
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Women
Birthdate: January 30, 1974
Relocate?: Prefer not to say
Marital Status: Attached
Height: 180-182 cm
Body Type: Athletic
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I don't drink at all
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: PhD/MD/Post doctorate
Occupation: Lecturer / Researcher
Race: Mixed
Religion: Agnostic
Male Endowment: Long/Average
Circumcised: No
Speaks: Dutch, English
Hair Color: Black
Hair Length: Short
Eye Color: Green
Glasses or Contacts: None
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