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BigDandeMan1962 58 / M
"Big burly bi bear of a guy looking for simple NSA fun, male, female, gender fluid, couples, all good clean fun"
Queen Creek, Arizona, United States
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BigDandeMan1962 58/M
Queen Creek, Arizona
Thinking of bailing out of this site. The fake profiles, the complete lack of courtesy, the humorless assholes. Anyone convince me to stay?
[COLOR darkblue]I'm a big bear of a guy, working on it, I'd say on the whole; HW not quite close to P. :D Very healthy, clean living, don't smoke, don't do drugs (at least since the awesome '70's, amiright?) drink rarely and only socially. I am on here for one reason only, to have NSA sexual encounters with clean sexy people. I am married to a beautiful petite woman that is not interested in sex. It's the way it is and I won't be shamed for looking for an outlet. For those who would accuse me of having no morals or ethics, I can assure you that I have a list of those I've downloaded from the internet. I love a great sense of humor and people who can express themselves. Sending 'Hey' is just lazy and uninspiring. Intelligence is sexy. I consider myself a man's man, and when I say man's man, I don't mean I'm a brainless macho man, man, what I mean is I'm a farm bred, self made, worldly masculine man of substance and experience with a healthy dose of curiosity and adventure and all of the trials, failures, scars, regrets and sexually transmitted diseases of any somewhat normal human being. Obviously joking about the STD thing, never, ever, even once, ever. In fact, forget I said that, one should not joke about those things, except when it's funny and even then...I do think the whole concept of crabs is kinda funny... I can fix anything, in fact, I'll come over to your house, break your shit, fix your shit better than it was before using fewer parts just to prove to you that I can fix your shit. If you want me to, that is, I don't have to, this is optional. Other not fascinating things about me: - ‘War hero’, ‘Genius’, ‘God-like’’ are all phrases that have never once been uttered about me -I can weld -I have been upside down in four cars and one dump truck, all five as a passenger, if we go out, I am driving -I once tried to eat a cigarette on a bet, I lost -I'm vasectomy safe, in fact the surgeon told me that I had the largest vas deferens he's ever seen, so I have that going for me, which is nice -My vasectomy surgeon died 3 days after my surgery, perhaps from shock -I'm a former hard rock/metal drummer -I can fly an airplane -I once talked my way into a private Mettalica concert at the Sundance Film Festival by claiming to be the world's tallest midget -I've never once fucked a piece of fruit, not judging, just have not done it -I live in Arizona and have never been to the Grand Canyon -I'm a huge animal lover, not that I only love huge animals, I love animals of all sizes I am very much a practicing bisexual (I intend to go pro later in the year) I'd kill (figuratively) to play with a bi couple. I am open to all body types, all colors. I am extremely discrete, down low, ex-military with a strong sense of self preservation and a keen bullshit meter. If we are all honest about what we want, we'll be fine. It's all about fun, right? [COLOR crim]Friend me and you can see face pics, if you run into the night screaming at the sight of them, it's on you...[/COLOR][/COLOR]

My Ideal Person First of all, willing....
My ideal is definitely willing to play...

I'm no hippie 'all people are beautiful' kind of guy, I'm attracted to whom I'm attracted to just like you, but I really do think that ugliness is what is inside us. I can usually tell within minutes of meeting or chatting with someone that they are ugly inside, regardless of how beautiful they are on the outside.
By the way, hippies are cool with me, just you know, take a shower.
The previous statement did in no way mean to overtly stereotype hippies as unclean, it was merely an attempt to poke slight fun at hippies because, you know, they're hippies...

I'm into women of all types and most situations, but let's face it, many women have a stigma about bisexual guys. Perhaps they think we'd be passive and fem in bed and I understand that concern, but that's not me.
I think I'd do much better with women on the site if I removed the bisexual tag from my profile, but I'm not doing that.

I love to play with married and single men looking to experiment, nothing turns me on more than knowing I'm the first man to ever suck his cock, and vice versa.

I'm very tactile, love touching, tasting, caressing, kissing and I like that in a sex partner. I'm not that super aggressive guy that's going to slap you dizzy in the face with his giant shlong; but if you insist, I'd certainly annoy you to the point of irritation whilst thunking my normal sized johnson on your forehead...not a problem, whatever floats your boat...

I'm not passive or un-passionate, I can be dominate when the situation calls for it, I love directing the action, I'm just not mean, ever.

With men I'd say I'm very versatile, not much experience with topping or bottoming but open to most experiences that doesn't involve pain, blood, or other extreme things.

If you have made it this far, hit me up! Worst that could happen is you chat with a nice guy!

The kinks listed below are things I'm either mildly interested in or may really crank me up; either way, I have not done most of those thing, mostly...

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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  • 58 / male
  • Queen Creek, Arizona, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Men, Women, Couples (man/woman), Groups, Couples (2 women), Couples (2 men) or TS/TV/TG
Birthdate: July 19, 1962
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Married
Height: 6 ft 2 in / 187-190 cm
Body Type: Ample
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: Some grad school
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Atheist
Have Children: Yes. We do not live together.
Want Children: Happy with what I have
Male Endowment: Average/Average
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Hair? What Hair?
Hair Length: Shaved
Eye Color: Blue
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