In the first place, I'm not looking for one-night-stands, however, I am looking for quality friends with benefits, possible 3somes [mfm, or fmf, or multiple couples] from time to time with like minded individuals or couples, all who are D & D free. You should know up front, I'm a real BBW, a woman with real curves, and I mean a Large Plus BBW (some would call "super bbw"), if you can't handle that or it's not what you're into, that's fine; if you're looking to be friends and just to have erotic chat, that's fine too; I'm not looking for a serious relationship; I'm here to start out as friends & getting to know someone, when and if it leads to something else, then that's great. I'm blunt and up front about things. IF we do get together for play, you should know, I really believe in fantastic incredible fun, but safe play. I am D & D free, this is vital to my play, otherwise there is no play, period! You should also know up front, I am married and as there will be a divorce some time from now, for various reas right now, discretion is absolutely vital to my play time or activities, IF there are any activities. Okay, now all THAT said, here's more about me, lol: I've been repeatedly asked what "Eclectic" means... for me, it specifically means that I love nearly everything, am typically easy going & I really do enjoy a huge variety of activities & events. When I'm on aff, and available to chat, I am typically a people per and love to chat and get to know people. I love music & the arts, love to travel/vacation; enjoy scenery; & love animals. If you have a question, ask me. Let me know what you're interested in, we may find we have similar or same interests. I've been repeatedly asked if I'm Bi. No I'm not. I do love anatomy & photography and am very art and music oriented. I'm learning & finding I enjoy a wide variety of play. I find many things erotic and am quite open minded about how other people like to play... I enjoy many varieties of positive incredibly short or long fun hours of play, lol. If you're interested in finding out more & want to chat, write me a note and tell me about yourself. ; -)

My Ideal Person Discretion, respect, kindness and caring for each other and for each others situations. Companionship to do activities with, friendship, and great erotic play.