I'm 39, 5'10", 160lbs, 36D, attractive w/ brown shoulder length hair and brown eyes, bi-curious and looking to satisfy some long held desires and fantasies. I would like to feel the touch of another woman and possibly enjoy the company of a couple. Discretion is paramount for me as my husband does not approve at all. NO SINGLE MEN! This also means that I don't want you to write to tell me that you can "Get me a woman". I've heard that enough already.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for a lady who understands that I require discretion and also understands that this something new for me. Looks do matter a little, but personality and chemistry will probably do more to win me over than looks ever will. This is my second attempt at this and this time around I will insist that I see a pic with a face (G prefered) before continuing. If you are a couple, I would like to see pics of both of you. I'm sorry if this sounds terrible, but I was deceived one too many times. Remember, I can only respond to one email a day, so please make it stand out enough for me to respond. If you include an alternate place to write you back, it would help alot. I do have a profile and can chat on a popular service which is owned by Time-Warner (can you decipher that?) if you would like to contact me there.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Its not really specific, but I want to experience the feeling of a having a woman take total control and hold my hand as I first feel her gentle touch. I want to run my fingers through her hair as her tongue teases me until I shudder with my first orgasm. I want her to kiss me, caress me and with her eyes, tell me that she wants me to taste her.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Under a waterfall

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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