Single male, DDF, been on and off AFF for a few years. I am, at heart, an exhibitionist. I love eyes on me. In my adult life that has meant thongs under white pants that show some VTL, spandex swimsuits, and a lot of time in the gym trying to keep fit. One of my favorite things is running on the beach in a suit that turns heads without being obscene. I think at heart it all stems from some desire to be objectified. I don't know if that's a particularly unique kink, but it's mine. On some level, I'm attracted to others with that same desire. A woman who knows how to dress to thrill will always make my heart beat faster--and if she knows the power she has, and actually enjoys the attention, then that's intoxicating to me. I don't know what I want right now. For starters, I'd like someone to trade some messages with, get to know, talk sex, and whatever else catches our attention. From there, well who knows? But I love chemistry--that's more important to me than looks, even. Hope you'll say hello.

My Ideal Person Someone who enjoys being seen, isn't afraid to dress to thrill, and enjoys watching too. Is the word I'm looking for "visual?"