In the long term, I am looking for my future for the rest of my life hotwife. If you are unsure what that is, please google it. I am 100% real and committed to my lifestyle choice. I understand and embrace who I am and love myself for doing so!!! See My ideal per for info on the type of hotwife I am seeking. In the short term: Just really looking to have some fun right now. Took some time off work to take care of some things and am most likely moving out of the area in the next 1-3 months. I love life and everything to do with it!!!! I love doing anything fun!! Life is way too short to not explore yourself and what you really enjoy(hint, hint, lol)In and out of the bedroom I am just one of the good guys, lol. Polite, gentleman, respectful, well spoken, thoughtful and just love to laugh and have fun. LOL, don't worry though, I can be rough and forceful when its called for, I promise, lol. Outside the bedroom? My faves are video games, Netflix, cooking, hanging with friends, not a big drinker(enjoy sometimes, lol, with friends),anything outdoors, museums, etc, etc, etc....I love to live!!!! Inside the bedroom? Well, lol, not much that I won't enjoy!!! I like to explore. Your limits and mine. I have no hang ups. I do prefer to talk about likes and dislikes before the fact. I have discovered somewhat of a dominant side over the last couple years, but also enjoy a small touch of the submissive side at the right times. I love oral, especially giving, enjoy role playing and have a great imagination. I usually have lots of stamina and can go multiple times. LOL, I am reluctant to say the rest as it is commonly mistaken as bragging and/or exaggerations, but its not either, I promise. but here goes. I am 43 and even though I can still count the total number of women on two hands(very clean and never otherwise, lol, had to throw that out there), I do know what I like, and have been told over the last couple of years that I am very good at it. If you like to cum, and I mean ALOT, I'm your guy!!! Most of my pleasure comes from experiencing yours with you!! Its better explained face to face. Oh, and just for the record, lol. Very well endowed in both length and width. 9x6. And for a visual on 6 around, lol, the next time you have an empty toilet paper roll, lol, put your hand around it, not ding, lol!!

My Ideal Person As for my ideal match: I ran across this somewhere else, lol. Unfortunately, she lives over 1000 miles to the north. I do have her permission use it since she put it into words much better than the dozens of attempts I made to, lol!!! If this describes you, I would very much like to talk with you. I am currently in the middle of a career change and am open to the possibility of relocation. Just for the record(and this is to show what kind of life I could help to support. I am not the bragging type), I make in the six figure range.

If you want a long-term relationship with a woman who is passionate, fun-loving and sweet - and who is secretly a total slut - then you may finally have met your match.

I have no difficulty attracting men, but I'm looking for a great man who is open to a long-term relationship and loves the idea of sharing me.

Sexually, I tend towards the submissive side; but can be a switch. I would prefer that you have a bit of a dominant streak but that is not a deal breaker because I can always get that elsewhere. If you also have submissive tendencies, I might be able to satisfy that with some minor humiliation. But I don't want a 'sissy' cuck or someone who never wants to sleep with me. I want my future husband to want me, and I want to want him. I have a huge sexual appetite, and want that in a loving supportive relationship...

If you think we'd be a good match, please respond & let me know why, and what your ultimate fantasy is. (**sidenote**This is me talking. My ultimate fantasy is to meet, fall in love with, and eventually marry a woman with this exact mindset!!!)

You're a loving, strong, affectionate man who is interested in finding a long-term relationship who's cock gets hard when you think about me fucking other men; but you can also f*^k me good. You have similar goals to me: You want a life-long partner who will work with you to build our own family in which we can both be the best possible versions of ourselves.

You're able to hold intelligent conversations on a variety of topics, and disagree intellectually without becoming emotional and obnoxious.

You want to meet in person sooner rather than later if we discover that we have a connection. I'm not interested in an online fantasy relationship

Again, if this is you....LET'S TALK!!!!

In the short term:

Like I said above, lol, I do plan on most likely leaving the area in the next few months, so I can't offer anything long term. However, if I do end up staying, which is not out of the question, and something serious did develop, I would not be against it. I love love, too!!! With that said, lol, lets start with my personality. It is much younger than my physical age. Translated, lol, that means that unless you have a very young soul, I usually connect with women younger than me. Sometimes considerably younger. I have no bias against complexion, lol. I think women of all colors are beautiful!! I also prefer the woman that I am spending time with to at least be relatively fit. I like to do active things outside the bedroom, and in it I very much would like to push our limits!!! both require at least a bit of a fitness level. Please be easy going, laugh easily, and be a genuinely happy person with a good heart and good communication skills. After all it can't be all sex, lol. Speaking of sex though, I am hoping to find someone with a sex drive to match mine. And, that's saying something. Also should be very comfortable in your own skin and nothing else if the occasion calls for it!! My kind of woman embraces her sexuality so completely that she could look in the mirror with a wry little smile and say "Why, you ARE a sexy, dirty little slut(and I mean that with complete reverence), aren't you?" And she would simply smile back at herself and think...."yes, yes I am and I love every single minute of it, too!" Lol, I swear I'll marry a woman like that one day and NEVER ask her to change a bit. But.....lol...kinda got off on a tangent there. where was I? Ah, yes... so... If there are women out there that think this way, I'm talking to you. I'm not looking for a bunch of women. Just one, if we hit it off right, that wants to spend the next month or two exploring her sexuality with me and finding out exactly how much pleasure she can achieve. If you are a younger woman and that description fits you and you are into 40 something guys, hit me up! If you're my age and you have a young soul and that description fits, hit me up! If you're younger and have an older guy fantasy that you want to explore, hit me up! If you're a woman of darker complexion and are into lighter skinned men or even a younger dark skinned woman with an older white guy fantasy, hit me up! I truly believe that we will find the right match and we will have an amazing two months or so. I wish everybody peace in your heart, love, and true happiness. I hope to hear from you soon!!!

P.S. I do have good face pictures, just ask. I am currently looking for a great job to start a new career with. Now's not the best time to be putting those on here. Or [pics of other things, either, lol. I have a couple of those too if you'd like them. And for the record, I do sport a goatee, and both my facial hair and head hair are spotted a bit with the classic salt and pepper look.

Oh, lol, I almost forgot. I am still very open to the idea of a couple until and if I find a single woman. Lol, just not into multiple simultaneous partners. I can play a few roles in couples scenarios, though. Email me any questions

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Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Not many things turn me on more than a beautiful, sexually
confidant woman who just can't seem to cum enough and
isn't afraid to say she wants more.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A remote wilderness spot, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, A hotel room, No particular place, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, creampies, Just about anything if the mood strikes and it enjoyable.

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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