I'm taking a small break from finding new parners. A new door opened for me and I'm focused on it but please keep sending the emails, I'll respond to them! Be back on the hunt in a few weeks! :) I hate writing these things...I'm a real per, shy and quiet but open and honest. I like the outdoors, fishing, nature, and talking walks. In the winter I like to stay indoors reading books, playing games, and watching movies. I like the simple things in life and I love taking as much time as I can to enjoy them. I'm a homebody type of per, I don't need to go out to have fun but I do enjoy the occasional night out. I don't like the bar scenes, can't stand them actually. I love being with my family, they're a huge part of my life and I look forward to our weekly family night. A lot of my time is spent with my s and going to their sporting events. I love watching them perform and take great pride in watching them succeed.

My Ideal Person I don't really have an ideal person, each person is different and unique. I know I don't like people who play games, I have no patience for them or their BS. It's not hard to say up front what you are looking for and wanting. Honesty is a HUGE requirement, if you can't be honest with yourself then you can't and won't be honest with me. At the moment I'm writing this, I'm just looking to talk, possibly meeting after awhile but it does change from time to time (depends on how many idiots I encounter). Ultimately I'm looking for one to three guys for FWB. You must be disease and drug free, and willing to provide proof, I want to remain free of these. Again honesty is a major requirement along with being single. I don't cheat nor will I help another cheat. No married men even if you're separated, to me that is still married. No attached men, you made a commitment to be with someone, just like if you were married and no couples, I'm not interested in a threesome at this time. I'm a bit picky on the age too, guys that are 48 and older, sorry I’m not interested in anything other than talking. Same with guys under 30, you’re too close to my kids age. Again sorry.

Please understand I like to take my time getting to know people whether it's in a chat room or emails on this site. There's a level of trust that needs to be built before anything else can happen and this takes time. With this being said I don't like talking about sex right off the bat. I've found that once the topic of sex is talked about, 90% of the time that is what is discussed from then on. Again I’m looking for a possible FWB and want to get to know you as a person. It's nice to know what each others interests are in the bedroom but I don't want that to be all we talk about. Also your job is not who you are, it's what you do to support yourself. It's nice to know you have a job but it doesn't define you as a person.

There are stages we have to go through before we can get to the benefits and that takes time. I need to see a few things first, you are willing to...1. talk about yourself so I can get to know you. I don't need your life story, just that bit of info to start a friendship. 2. work to build the trust that is NEEDED for an open and honest FWB relationship. What I mean by open and honest is this...I want the men I'm with to know about each other, who they are sleeping with (I also want to know) not names but the number of partners. How often? Any one night stands? If they use protection and what type? If a condom broke (this is a biggie!), did they get tested (another biggie!) if this happened? ETC. I'm not trying to pry or come across as the jealous type. I want to be able to make an informed decision whether I want to continue sleeping with them, or wait until they can provide proof they are still safe or walk away from the benefits part of the friendship. I want the guys to be able to make the same informed decision too.

I don't give out my personal info right away. My view on sharing personal info is...it's up to that person. If I'm not ready to share it, at the time someone asks, I'll let them know. I hope they'll understand and respect my wishes, as I would if I asked them. We're still being open and honest about things, it's just not the right moment to share. The only time I would have a problem with this is if you were unwilling or avoided answering my questions all together. If you do this all the time, it will make me feel like you're hiding something. I'll walk away from our talks and there wont be a second chance. Again got to build the trust. If, by chance, I give you any of my personal info, please understand you're someone I find interesting and would like to get to know better, whether it's as a friend only or a FWB.

Nude pictures are like my personal info, I don't post them and you wont get one unless I decide to give you one. I don't like people who send email after email without giving me a chance to respond. You come across as insecure, desperate or needy and I don't care for that type of men. Plus I have a life outside of this site, as everyone else, I check my messages every few hours but I don't always have time to respond.

Profiles with facial pictures are more interesting to me than ones with dick pics or no picture at all. If I read your profile, I'll look at everything, including the pictures. And the profiles without a picture makes me wonder what you're hiding. I wont view them when I'm prowling the site. I will, however, respond to an email from a picture-less profile, although I wont be that interested.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
I'm pretty open but depends on my mood

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, Also depends on the person

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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