I am a closet cross dresser who would have sex/gender reassignment surgery in heartbeat and fully transition, were it not for the hefty price tag. Life sucks. I am 50, very slender with a 28 inch waist and a height of 5 feet 9 inches, and look 35 to 40 according to most people (I usually have to show my drivers license to prove I am actually 50 due to their disbelief). My straight hair falls about 8 inches past my shoulder and is dyed black. My eyes are hazel, and one is slightly more green while the other is slightly more blue. I have not developed natural breasts nor have had any cosmetic surgeries and while I do not have a particularly deep voice at all I could use more practice imitating a female voice. While I am a lover of dark and spooky things and while I would be lying if I said I have not darkened the door of a few goth clubs or listen to at least some goth music I do not identify as a true goth and there are subtle differences in the way I dress an actual goth should be able to discern. I am in truth more of a metal head on the more gothic side of the broad metal spectrum. I can at times be a bit stereotypical with the dark and spooky, but that's just me at time so, if that bugs you, not sorry. Politically and socially I am a progressive, but easily get along with those of a different persuasion and do not think less of anyone for not agreeing with my views. Nazi's and bigots however, I am unlikely to get along with and need not respond. I can be very submissive sexually but very independent and liberated otherwise. I love my freedom and no you can't have it regardless of what happens between the sheets. I can also at times be more dominant sexually under the right circumstances, but more sensually, seductively and hedonistically so as opposed to manipulative or punitive.

My Ideal Person This is where it gets complicated, because each person is different so there is no one size fits all. My advice, be yourself. You don't have to be Mr or Misses Vampire to interest me or get along with me. I appreciate those who are not afriad to be who they are. As far as sex apeal goes, just have a personality, you never know, the real you might be sexier than whatever image you try to project.No one is boring as long as they have at least some genuine interest and identity.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A dark back alley, Old graveyard or altar of a gothic church

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Threesomes, Cross Dressing

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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