I weigh 170 lbs.. I have blue eyes. Long red hair down to my butt. And I stand 5' 4" I may by a woman, however this woman has her needs. I'm looking for someone s/he doesn't matter I enjoy both sexes. I'm looking for someone to spank my ass (not really hard but hard enough it stings) and pull my hair. I also enjoy fisting, and doing the nasty in open. I find myself missing that quite a bit. I miss waking up in someone's arms it feels so great . I want to feel that same pleasure again someday. However right now I'm not looking for a boyfriend or girlfriend, I'm looking for someone whom can help me pass my time with. Someone who isn't afraid of waiting for a while. Cause I'm in no rush to get into another relationship. I need to give myself time to heal after the 8 yr marriage I am almost out of. I think if we think about it like this as a fwb kind of thing. I would fit in well with a couple or single woman or male well.