Happily married couple, 55 and 53, with a great sex life that occasionally includes others :). We're creative, liberal, and intentional about creating a memorable sex experience. We enjoy wine, live music, art events, intelligent conversation by a campfire. Not into sports, casinos, noisy bars- really not into heavy drinking. She is straight, talented at oral, playful and enthusiastic. She is shy at first, sensitive to touch, and ultimately multi-orgasmic. She has a luscious ass and smaller breasts. She is BBW - not hwp. He is straight, seriously fun, loves to caress, kiss and lick. His biggest turn on is giving his partner pleasure. We're looking for highly sensual 3-some and 4-some experiences in the same room (full swap ok but not essential). Our goal is that everyone should leave feeling fully alive and fully appreciated. We enjoy kink: bondage, blindfolds, sensual teasing, more. (Don't let that scare you away. It's not essential but if you are kinky, do contact us.) Safer sex is a must; no intercourse without a condom - REALLY. We exchange face pics and meet first for coffee or drinks to see if we click. Even if we don't click as play partners, we appreciate good conversation and a nice date. We don't play on first dates.

My Ideal Person We are looking for couples or single men. Sensual playfulness, intelligence, humor, personality, honesty and respect are high on the list of qualities likely to click with us. Ideally, we seek an ongoing sexual friendship to explore more deeply and repeatedly

Guys, if you want her to respond to your email, tell us about yourself. Why do you think we would hit it off? We get a lot of emails; very few say anything of interest. You will rise to the top of the list if yours does.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Various world/folk, from African drumming to Indian ragas,
tango to celtic

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage, tightlacing corsetry

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Creativity/Kinkiness level, Honesty, Respect, Humor, Enthusiasm

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
No, only interested in real, live people

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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