I am down-to-earth, normal (without an overabundance of idiosyncrasies), fun, flirty, high sensual (love lots of foreplay and tantric exploration) man who loves (and i can't overemphasize this enough) LOVES sex and all the good stuff that comes out of it. Due to extenuating circumstances at home, I have a hall pass from wife to play ... Good sex occurs when two (or more) folks park all their insecurities and worry outside and strip down to just flesh and bone. Good communication about likes, dislikes, what pleasures and what pains (and sometimes there is a fine line between the two) and an active imagination to drive the sex forward and sideways and upside down ... creativity in the bedroom comes with lots of trials and even an error or two but keep licking, sucking and fucking until you hit the high notes ... I invite you to propose your idea of fun and I will give you my two cents and maybe we can meet in a safe space and sexplore like adventurers of olden days ... crossing into unknown territory. I am prone to dominant but can be flexible. I love safe kinky play. Nothing weird ... just your average run of the mill soft bondage, soft discipline and lots and lots of sensual exploration.

My Ideal Person My ideal person is open to giving freely AND open to receiving. Creative in bed. Sexy is as sexy does. I am not overly vain or narcissistic so someone who is comfortable in their own skin, comfortable explore the boundaries of intense pleasure would be ideal.

I subscribe to the more the merrier credo.

I like folks who love to express themselves sexually. Let's make the bed our canvas and draw (live? act?) all sorts of naughty images. Be my mona lisa, my jackson pollack, my golden kiss. (And that is in no way an allusion to as that is an example of weird ... only wholesome, kinky fun in our pleasure studio!)

Reach out and touch me. I won't bite. Hard. And i may just surprise u