Sadly I have recently lost my life partner, friend, and soulmate of almost 50 years. While very sad, dont feel sorry for me, none of us are getting out of this alive.We were very active in the lifestyle for many years and in particular enjoyed going to Hedo once or twice a year for the last 8 years or so.My husband did all the communication and screening of prospective playmates.We talked about what we would do when this day would come, and it is thisI will continue to seek making connections with respectful malesthat are attractive to me and willing to practice safe sex. You also must be able to host or willing to rent a hotel room.Do not expect things to move forward too quickly, there must be chemistry.I have a pretty good built in bullshit detector to help screen out incompatible guys.If it is not a fit please take no for an answer and move on.For those I wish to get to know better, we will be able to move to a telephone conversation platform.I may be open to travel and or lifestyle cruising with the right experienced lifestyle oriented male.At some point I may be open to a relationship but for now it is simply a FWB situation at best as I am still mourning my recent loss.

My Ideal Person Ideally a mature, fit, sexually active, respectful male.Widowed or unattached.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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