It seems few are spontaneous to meet and ya need to be careful but theirs careful and why the hold up or ...I wanna be positive...I was a collegiate athlete...life's been great.to me...and it seems this site.is all talk...I have met.some good people who I'm still friends with so who knows. I actually will meet and show up and not back out with an excuse. I am actually single... and retired so I just wanna have fun and if someone wants to come along for the ride I'm open to settling down as well. Couples I've never not had the time length be just once, all were months, and I'm still in contact with the husband's who I'm actually friends with and he tells me or she does about their recent 'good times".