Update: Thank you for all the attention. It was overwhelming! I found someone who I think is the type of dominant I need. Plus, he's very local! He's encouraging me to keep looking for another woman though :) Wow! I am blown away by all the attention already. My pussy is gushing. Thank you for all the emails but I cannot go through all of them :( If you really think you are the right man or woman for me please write something more than "hey babe." I am very attractive. I have no problem turning men's heads but I need to be very discreet. I'm a reformed bad girl that married a very sweet man who is lacking in the bedroom. I'm currently on my second marriage. My first marriage was to a very dominant man who turned me out. He got off on sharing me with other men and women and I delighted in being his peral fucktoy. For completely non-sexual reas that marriage fizzeled. My new husband has no idea about my past. And he has no idea how to please me in bed.

My Ideal Person I miss being dominated, taken. I miss having a strong man direct me. I need someone close by, a fwb, who can help revive my inner passion. The man who can connect with my mind will get as much of me as my situation allows and he wants. MUST BE DISCREET.

No one under 30 please! No offense but a true dom will get into my head not just order me around. Men under 30 tend not to get that.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I'd like my lover to take me to a strip club and buy me
lap dances from different strippers. To each stripper
he would explain that I am his slut and that I will do what
ever he says. Then he'll have me play with each strippers
pussy until word gets around and all the strippers come
to our table. Obviously that's never going to happen
in real life. I mean the bouncer would kick us out, right?
Unless I offered him a blow job ;)

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've done it so many times that I've forgotten how to type with two hands.

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