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IWantASexLife 53 / F
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Fort Wayne, Indiana, United States
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IWantASexLife 53/F
Fort Wayne, Indiana
[B]I am recently widowed, and I really enjoy spending time with family, when I make it to Ohio, and friends. Also just moved back to Ohio, and started a new job [COLOR deeppink][I]I am working 3rd shift, 10pm-6:30am 5 days a week! I work Monday-Friday.[/I][/COLOR] Ideal first date for me would be a cup of coffee at Waffle House or Starbucks I was married to an alcoholic for almost 17 years. He wanted his Jim Beam and his vodka more then he wanted a family. In August of 2018, I moved out, and then he passed away in November. A couple of summers ago I went through a life changing experience. I had to have an emergency hysterectomy and then got a flesh-eating bacteria and was in the hospital for a month. Now with the skin graft on my abdomen, I am so much more self-conscience as ever before. The doctor said that my abdomen will fill back out in 5 -10 years. Will send a pic of the area if you really want to see it so would have to be with some other form of commination. I do know that NOT all men are like DRUNK, and I do understand that you may have to have a beer after a long, hard day, and I am fine with that, but please don’t drink when I am with you, I would rather have a cup of coffee or a diet soda. As it says in my peral information I DON'T drink at ALL! So I would appreciate it if you would adhere to this. I like to read, write, and spending time with my family, friends, watching Ohio State football. Baseball (Go Indians), Basketball (Go Cavs!) , from my favorite sports teams, can you tell where I am originally from??? Movies. and several TV shows. I love country and rock music, and would like to become a successful author. I love spending time with family and friends. To unwind from some of the stress I also like to just get in the car and drive, while listening to the music on my phone thru my Blue tooth. For some rea just driving relaxes me! I am a mother of two, My 23 year old made me a grandmother on May 2, 2018 and yes I am happy about that! I just got to see my grand the first week of June, and fell in love with the little guy!! My second grand arrived on May 14, 2019. My 21 year old, who got married May 4, 2019 and is due in January, she has 3 dogs! I am a lot more comfortable meeting over a drink and get to know someone. I don't judge a book by its cover, but what is inside. Size doesn't matter; it is how you use it! And skin is just skin. Does not matter the color, shape or size! I am more comfortable in a pair of sweatpants, shorts, tee shirts and hoodies......Have never been a dress up type of per. I am not looking for the next husband, I do believe in marriage, but that has not been the best for me, so to be upfront here, I am not looking to get married again. Am just looking for a very long term friendship and with the benefits. I am new to this, and am stepping out of my comfort zone. I want to try a very new and exciting life style. I would like to become a dominate in the bedroom, and would like to explore, and expand on this. There is also a rea why I want to try to be a dominant. The main rea is because I let the DRUNK dominate my WHOLE married life, and now that I have started to take control of my life, I would like to expand that control into the bedroom. I want a FRIEND/FWB and or a submissive or two. And not just a one night stand, been there, done that, have the tee shirt, shorts, and sweatpants! I so miss being held, that hand running up and down the back, snuggling, kissing, and the commutation that is to be there, and more than just being called a Frigid Bitch. I have fantasies, and hope that someday those will be able to come true. And yes, I would like to explore some of my deep, dark fantasies, and yes, I do blush when I talk about them! And I have added a fantasy folder of pictures on here, but they are just FANTASY, and not sure I would EVER explore them, but they are out there![B]

My Ideal Person Someone who knows how to treat a woman. A Man who can make me feel secure about myself again. I will admit, that I let the DRUNK walk all over me, and I lost myself, and my self-esteem, but I would so like to get it back after I get rid of this baggage that I was married too. A friend first, with the benefits added, a sounding board, a cuddlier, a playmate, and anything else we can come up with!

A man who doesn't judge on looks, because I don't judge them!

Emotional and verbal abuse is just as bad as physical, and sometimes, I wish he would have hit me, so I have the bruises to show the public. Yes I am a victim of emotional and verbal abuse, and I hope I am not letting that stop me from moving forward!!

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Too many to list on here

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Robert Downy Jr. I mean come on he is HOT!!!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 53 / female
  • Fort Wayne, Indiana, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Men, Groups or Couples (2 men)
Birthdate: May 31, 1970
Hometown: Willshire, Ohio, United States
Relocate?: Maybe/Yes
Marital Status: Widowed
Height: 5 ft 6 in / 167-170 cm
Body Type: A little extra padding
Smoking: I'm a light/social smoker
Drinking: I don't drink at all
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: Some college
Occupation: Material Handler
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Atheist
Have Children: Yes. We do not live together.
Want Children: Happy with what I have
Bra Size: 44 / 100 D
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Brown
Hair Length: Medium
Eye Color: Blue
Glasses or Contacts: Glasses
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