Update: Do to my job, I can't hang out here with the site open. Please feel free to contact on IM or leave a message and I WILL get back with you All messages will be answered. It's just polite. Unless you are an inconsiderate flake who wants to send messages then disappear like a puff of smoke. If you are real and want to communicate I am willing to text, chat, etc. If you are just here to hide behind our keyboard and fantasize keep moving. I’m 45, 6 foot 2 about 240lbs. I’ve been married for years and am not looking to runaway with anyone. However, I do need to step outside my current life and remember what it is to be just me. Not father, husband, wage earner and bill payer, but as an individual who is appreciated for who they are and not for what they provide. I WILL NEVER SEND AN UNREQUESTED PIC. IF THER IS SOMETHING YOU WOULD LIKE TO SEE, ASK. Otherwise, I will do my best to be polite, entertaining and respectful. I will not ask you to immediately meet for a hook up. I have to connect mentally and psychologically before anything else. I enjoy a woman who can give mind as well as other things. I am looking for someone who also needs a break from their life once in a while. Someone who wants to be the per they really are, not an extension of someone else. If your looking for someone to save you financially or from a bad relationship then you want to move on. I’ve done the hero bit and I’m not looking for more damsels in distress. I enjoy chatting so if you see me online hit me up. Also I am here as a single account but with the right per the wife would be interested in playing too.

My Ideal Person Looks for classy on the street and ravenous in the sheets.
I have no ideal person. I think everyone has their upsides and downsides. If you are someone that likes to get to know others feel free to hit me up. Even if we are not a match I would like to talk to you. Especially if you are in the Joplin area, always wanting to know more people in the open minded community.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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