Hello. Like a zillion other guys in Atlanta on this site, I am looking for a connection. "What kind of connection?" I'll bet is your immediate reaction. Eventually, a physical connection. Before we get ahead of ourselves, it is apparent I need to put this out there, I am not going to: join another website; vote for you on a modeling site; send you money so you can travel to Atlanta to date me; pay for your apartment, your college, your car, your surgery, etc. Seriously, I am a real guy trying to meet a real woman. (If you wonder what's up with all that, I can explain in painful detaii). Definitely heterosexual - sorry dudes, I'm not curious about men - I r 1. Now that is out of the way . . . Hello? Is anyone there? Oh, hi again. Glad you are still here. A few things need to happen before we get down to fun. You need to think I am attractive for some rea (hopefully, that is why you decided to read my profile). Then we need to exchange messages, starting on this site and then moving to something a little less cumbersome, like email or some sort of chat app. If you don't get bored (maybe you already are), we can meet and then decide what happens next. The first meeting should be in public - a Seattle based company has been nice enough to provide locations around the city for just the type of meeting I describe. There are other public places to meet for the first time, also. You can be safe, I can be safe, its all good. You might already know all this, but I'm letting you know I am all for discretion and safety. Still reading? I know this is long, there is a payoff at the end. Okay, I'll bet you want to know what I am looking for. At a basic level: kissing, touching, passion and sharing sexual euphoria. It's a good place to start - better than what I am getting now. Could I take it to another level - sure; such things make a sexual relationship even better. Do I want to change my situation at home? - yes, but she won't cooperate so here I am. Oh, you mean, do I want to change the legal relationship at home? NO. That is where 'discreet' comes into play, I am playing in secret, I don't have a hall pass. Do you? What do I have to offer? I am in decent shape (I am beefy from working out, I am not a skinny dude), I can be funny (hmmm, kinda a smartass), I have mad oral skills, I write erotic stories (there's some in my blog), I have an active imagination, and I am an experienced and thorough lover. I want you to be satisfied almost as much as you want to be satisfied. I am respectful in public and prefer to lead in private. I want to get to know you, I would prefer something long term - it is a drag to be on AFF searching and the sex is better as lovers get to know each other. But being adaptable is another one of my endearing traits. One last thing, if we start talking and you aren't feeling it - let me know, tell me to get lost, that way you won't be bothered by me and I won't waste my time bothering you.

My Ideal Person I am looking for a woman who enjoys sex, being playful, must love kissing, and has her own life with a little of room for me. I want most of the time we are together in person to be intimate time, but we can message throughout the day. Married or single is fine, but know that I need to be discreet about my affairs - I get along with my wife except for the sex part.

My ideal lover should enjoy cumming . . . a lot. A woman's orgasm turns me on. I like touch and taste on the way to bring as much pleasure as possible to the target of my affection. Is it just about the sex? Could be. I am also comfortable with feelings - yours, mine, whatever ours might be together. I don't need to ingest any supplements to assist in my performance (just today, my wife mentioned she wished i had erectile dysfunction - I guess that is one reason I am on here).

Guess I should mention, not into drama. An intimate relationship should be a fun activity. I know what boundaries are and if you communicate yours, I will abide by them.

Take care and great sex to all of us,