We are a secure couple looking to add a female now and then. The lady / ladies we find must be comfortable pleasing her in a girl on girl situation and being pleased by him until she becomes more comfortable with returning the favor. Again we are fairy new to this and you must be patient as she learns how to give back... In the meantime he can take care of you needs or just sit back and watch us:) We would ultimately like to find someone we can get with every few weeks but will enjoy meeting others along the way. K&D