Hi! I'm Kate and I am looking for friends and potential partners who know what ethical non-monogamy means and who live that way themselves. I am relatively new to being in an open and poly relationship, but as I slowly explore this way of having relationships I am finding it to be refreshingly honest and relaxing. Thus, my presence here! Please be aware: I am NOT looking for hookups, one night stands, random sex, casual sex, or anything that involves meeting a random stranger somewhere and having sex. Do not even ask. This sort of thing is not at all what I want. I'm married and we share a boyfriend who lives in a different state for now. Hopefully, we'll be able to live much closer together in the future. In the meantime, our relationships are basically defined as open and poly. I would like to find people who can be good friends and good company, and perhaps in time, good lovers. If the chemistry isn't right for physical intimacy, I don't feel like anyone loses in having a good friend to hang out with. I am free to meet anyone that I wish, as long as it is in a public and safe location. If I get to know someone well and want to spend time with them outside of the public eye, my life-mate would like a chance to meet them first. (This meeting applies to males only. Ladies, my mate does not want to interfere in any way with whatever we may choose to do between ourselves.) He loves me and wants to be sure I'm safe. If that is a problem for you, please do move along. Thanks! What I DO want are intelligent and open-minded friends, acquaintances, dates and possibly more. I care about who I am spending my time with, and I want them to care about me as well. I am not necessarily looking for a lifetime or even a long time, but I do want a real relationship. I love to spend time outdoors as well as in, depending on my mood. I am a hiker and a jogger, as well as someone who enjoys drawing, painting, singing, and reading a good book. I'm an amateur at archery, fencing, and racquetball and would love to engage in them again if you enjoy them also. I have a degree relating to the life sciences and am extremely intuitive with animals. I adore riding s but have none of my own. I am not much bothered by weather as long as I am dressed for it, so you can find me playing in the snow or walking in the rain as often as you might going for a swim on a warm day.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Lindsey Stirling, Blackmill, Linkin Park, Maroon5, P!nk,
Lady Gaga

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Receiving Oral Sex, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Not that I can think of. I find a lot of celebs fake, which
isn't attractive to me.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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