To get the logistics outta the way: PUT THIS WARNING ON YOUR PROFILE PEOPLE. WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. Secondly, if you're a BOY, GUY, MAN, MALE, and/or Previously the same gender as I am, I'm flattered, but that's it. Perhaps you found my profile pic attractive, but the feeling (and any other interactions) is NEVER going to happen and I'm NEVER going to change my mind about that! Frankly, my preferences shouldn't have made me a option, or at the very least should have been a strong suggestion of NOPE. That said, I do wish you the best in finding love, happiness, sex, kink, and (insert why you joined the site) "fly your LGBT freaky banner high (you do you)"! Smiles, hugs and High 5's, but I'm not your guy! Please stop with the messages. "Ah hem" (straightens tie, if I owned one) "Now, on with the show..." "I'm interesting", seems to be the general consensus I get from people. This isn't the first-time I've been on AFF. it wasn't til after I completed my initial profile did it reveal it's aff (joined under a different moniker)! My older AFF profile 808stamina. If you check out my other profile you will notice it's much older start date. I've logged on occasionally to blow the dust off my inbox, and 99% of the time all I find in it is dust. I'm very independent, very social, and work a respectable amount of time that tends to fall outside most peoples "free-time" hours. Which means no nights and weekends. I have a allergic response to alcohol (genetic), so I've never been one that involves myself in situations that include it. For the record, I don't have a prohibitionist outlook to it, but I hate the question "why?" anymore than a vegetarian need to explain meat :-P And for the record I love meat [:P] I've lived my life a unintentional "raised eye brow", in the sense that I don't fit social molds and others have had subtle to mild cases of "shock and awe" when they figure out, that they figured wrong. Its how I got the "oh my" part in my screen name :-) And it rhythms with my name (friends made up that nickname.) Would you like to meet for coffee sometime? For the intention of just coffee :-) Benefits are great and all (or I wouldn't be on AFF), but unlike a Penthouse forum or "Casting couch", strangers generally don't bump into each other off the street and start fucking. I'm sure its in the realm of possibilities, technically speaking (ok... historically speaking) but "rare" nay on "unicorn status endangered- rare"

My Ideal Person First word that comes to mind is REAL. Second word that comes to mind is female! So for starters, a real, air breathing human being is a must! So, No I won't join your paid video cam, or pay chat room! I'm very computer save, my intentions aren't to life in cyberspace or connected to my cellphone, I'm looking for real human interaction. Coffee or beach is a good old fashion start!

Thirdly , the short answer is a FWB (emphasis on both "Friend" and "Benefits"). I've been a member of this site for a long time, with different account names, at different points in my life. Let's just say I know the context of this site and human nature.

Tertiary, I am looking for a "real" persona. I don't expect transparency, but I do expect "upfrontedness" (it's a new word that's catching on ;-p). If you're single, BE single! If you're married, great be married (you have my respect and discretion)! I'm very non judgemental and not the morality police. But, I expect everyone to be honest and be real about what they want and what's being given. Short answer is respect, but I feel the need to clarify in this day and age

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, The middle of a park, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room, No particular place, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Threesomes, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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