VERRRRRY Happily Married 20+ years. Looking for playmates to see what happens NO DICK PICS!!!! Wife and husband who want to add some more unique and spicy fun to our lives. We are looking for a couple that we can be friends with and evolve into more fun. We are complete newbies so we will probably be too slow or too vanilla for most to start. We are in no hurry as we are 100% happy with each other. This would just be "extra." Her: Outgoing, extrovert, very active. Likes dancing, skating, working outdoors, fixing stuff. Him: Introverted, bookish, musical, writerly. Our Ideal Person or couple would be within about 15 years of us (35-55) and looking for more of a relationship, friendship, connection rather than simple anonymous f***ing. We are fun, outgoing, and have a pretty busy life. We are looking for long term if that's possible, but first lets meet for drinks and go from there, to see if we are a good fit first. We both enjoy seeing the OTHER one appreciated, desired, turned on etc. She is voyeuristic and touchy. He lives more in his head.