Sorry we do not reply to IM, or chat without a proper introduction and photo on your profile (or attached to your IM). An attractive German & American married couple who has enjoyed a very stimulating lifestyle. She speaks German/English fluently & he is still learning the language. Both are fit, & athletic & very much enjoy the outdoors, sports as well as the arts. We have lived around the world and are educated, very open minded, and considered a lot of fun. We believe in individuality, excitement, lust, and total respect for one another and thus are nonjudgmental; we do not believe in jealously or breaking the bonds of trust. Great laughs, bantering and great intellectual conversations are a must. We love dancing, a nice evening of good wine and ..... . He is straight but very comfortable around men; she is bi.

My Ideal Person Would prefer couples but also very comfortable meeting attractive intelligent single/married men and women. Age isn't important BUT we prefer people +/- 15 years our age group. We don't enjoy a bunch of trash talk without having a firm understanding of "polite introductions up front." so if this is a difficult trait, we're sorry but we won't reply to your salutation. Ease into it. Ideal male would be between 30-60, fun and loves humor, can have a meaningful intellectual conversation, attractive, well endowed (preferred but not mandatory - especially if you have mental stimulating skills), takes cares of himself, respectful, loves to dance, a great kisser and one who can stimulate the mind without a lot of over the top trash talk until well into the excitement phase! He: Prefers older women who can hold a stimulating conversation and is confident in what she expects. He can watch, join or not participate - height and weight proportioned is our preference. Friendship is the most important for us in couples as we are NOT looking for couples who are Kent and Barbie.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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