Let’s try a little bit of honesty here and see if it gets us anywhere. I am in a very happy very committed relationship, I do not want to change that whatsoever. I am not available for commitment. I am not available for dating, I do not need to pay for sex. I have sex available to me 24/7 any way I want it from a very willing partner. I enjoy playing with new kitty. I want it. My partner supports me in my desire to play and it turns her on to know that I am f#€king other women. Sometimes she even helps me find a new playmate. Sorry, my partner is not available for play and she has no interest in women. She belongs to me and she plays with only me. I'm a dominant man both inside and outside the bedroom. I like to take the lead, I love kink, I'm willing to explore your kinks with you. I enjoy oral pleasure both giving and receiving and almost anything else you can think of. Let’s play! I'm willing to exchange non-blurry pictures on another platform.

My Ideal Person I’m looking for a long term preferably or short term sexual relationship. I’m looking for a married or otherwise attached woman or a single woman secure in herself who wants a NSA sexual relationship who is sexually adventuresome and at least a little bit kinky, open to try new things and let me take the lead. Someone who maybe isn’t getting what she needs sexually at home but is otherwise happy in her relationship and doesn’t want to leave it but would like to have her sexual desires filled discreetly and without drama on the side. Someone who understands that I have a life partner and that I am not going to change or end my relationship.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

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