SEXY female half of an experienced swinging couple, married for 28 years, looking to break up the monotony of being a SAH mom in the North Country. I believe that although encounters with strangers can be thrilling, ultimately friends make the best lovers. I love my husband... he rocks my world in every possible way. I am not looking for a replacement or a back up plan. But he is a busy man and I need more... more attention, more flirtation, more fantasies, more orgasms. But I crave quality over quantity. I want a man who can make me wet before he lays a finger on... or in me. Someone who knows what he wants... but cares about what I need. I am a mom 24/7... 365 days a year. I have no desire to be a mom between the sheets (or on the table... or against the wall... or bent over the hood of the car). Ideally my playmates will be mature, good natured, respectful of boundaries, confident in themselves, able to have fun in and out of the bedroom, adept at sexual banter, proficient in the art of seduction, and have the tools and skills to follow through.

My Ideal Person My ideal person will be patient and understanding that I am a stay at home mom... I have 2 school age children. It isn't always easy for me to get on during the day and carry on whole conversations without little eyes and ears. The evening hours are easier. My family will always come first. I would like to think I am worth the wait... but if you don't agree, I understand.

I am looking for someone who is turned on by real life encounters and not just the clicking of their keyboard. Life is too short and I am too busy to live it online. Also (I would hope it goes without saying), I expect discretion. My husband knows everything. But I don't need my children or community knowing what happens behind closed doors.

I completely understand and respect your need for discretion as well. I am not looking to blow up anyone's life, especially my own. That being said... if your idea of needing discretion involves looking over your shoulder every 5 seconds to make sure you won't be caught instead of focusing on making my perfectly painted toes curl... then maybe you shouldn't be here.

I will ask questions about your relationship status, not because it ultimately matters to me whether you are in a relationship or not but because I'm 100% allergic to crazy girlfriends, wives and exes. If you are in a relationship, be sure you are ready for THIS. There is no room for guilt or regrets between my thighs.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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