[bling 756035] Hey, I'm Melissa. But back home in the Pacific Northwest (Bellevue) I'm known as "Mellisandre," the Red Witch from Game of Thrones. Mistress of the dark! And so there lays the irony being I am now here in Sunny Florida loving the sun, my tan lines, ive become a blonde and I love the warm sun.. Totally the opposite of back home in the PNW. I was pale and had dark hair lol! That said, there's no place like the Pacific Northwest which I still consider my other home. Except the beach apparently. I'm not your average beach bunny, But I'm convinced life is definitely better in flip flops! High tides & good vibe is the new life for me, not bad for 40. Enjoying life. Good times and tan lines is the way to go. Or no tan lines is even better but hey! Don't get me started! Florida has been such a turn on at this stage of my life, it really has. Wanna turn me on??? It's pretty simple... Well if you're Intelligent that is. Intelligence is the ultimate aphrodisiac for me, really looking for someone who considers himself different from the crowd. But can't be arrogant. I dislike rude and needy people. Someone who can get along with anyone and have a good time. I love the beach, love to take care of myself and stay healthy. I do enjoy a good drink and to have fun, go out for cocktails. But the conversation and the building and leading up to that connection is the most fun and what I seek. Rather new to the area but love it so far. Been spending most my time out at the beach but been indoors more as of late. Best of both worlds. Also a big Bucs fan and love baseball in the summer. I prefer my Mariners back home but enjoy a good Ray's game as well.

My Ideal Person I'm very open to experimentation. Personality is most important to me. I don't mind someone who is a older or younger than me. If we get along and click that's what matters to me. Intelligence it key for me. Conversation. Communication.

I live back and forth between here and the Seattle area. Yeah two different cultures you'd think, but not really. I fell I'm more of an alternative in nature and both environments are very nurturing for me. I must admit I love Florida more but consider both as "home."

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
not sure

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Yes all the time!!!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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