Life is ultimately about enjoying what I call "the points of pleasure". So, I love laughter and even zaniness. And so, although I'm not into following sports, I'm a lifelong no-steroids bodybuilder who still seriously weight-trains to feel fit. (BUT I don't mind if others aren't into exercise -- exercise is simply something that I do because I enjoy it.) An open-minded, intelligent thinker turns me on. I find pleasure in discussions. I don't have to agree with everyone, nor they with me, but I definitely try to understand others' perspectives. I'm a cuddler/snuggler, so I enjoy simply lying entangled and leisurely talking. And, I'm, most definitely, into long sessions of sensuality. Sensuality involves the whole body. It begins with joined eyes and touching hands and gently surrendering lips...it means entwined bodies, skin-against-skin, whispered nothings, and head-to-toe caresses. Orgasm? Well, not necessarily but eventually and, if it happens, perhaps frequently. But's it's the getting there -- the lingering in that warm-whipped-cream high of arousal and sensation and passion -- that's my ultimate "point of pleasure". ( Yes, I've had a vasectomy.) My wife and I, married 43 years, have had an OPEN MARRIAGE for over 18 years, meaning we willingly give each other full consent to meet other lovers. Open marriage is definitely not for most, but it works for us. We're also nudists (Pandora's Forest). You can contact my wife (AFF profile"lovemyT" ) to verify she's okay with me having playmates. Heck, she'll even webcam for ya so you can confirm that she's who she says she is.

My Ideal Person I'm an OPEN MARRIED...I am looking for mutual physical attraction, for chemistry, but more importantly, for that lady who longs to lie back and bask in pleasure. I'm into multi-hour sessions -- I've spent as long as eight consecutive hours pleasuring a playmate. If you're interested in far, far more than wham-bam-thank-you-ma'am...If you long for total body connection where fingertips and mouths and knees and ankles are as important as genitals...then we may just be whom the other's looking for.

...and, again, keep in mind, I'm an OPEN MARRIED.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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