Above all seeking great conversation. There is no rush here. Sharing fantasies is so much better once a connection is established. Respect and patience are noticed and appreciated. We are not into extreme fetishes like bathroom things, pain or humiliation. As for what we do like ...well, lets not spoil everything here! Lets chat! 😉

My Ideal Person People who prefer taking their time and desire quality over quantity. We kindly pass if you are attached and your partner doesn’t know, likewise if you describe yourself as alpha or dominant in or out of bed.

We don’t consider ourselves overly picky physically. Cleanliness and some consideration into appearance is important but if you’re a male and your profile pic showcases you bent over with your butt (and sometimes your starfish) exposed, we mentally swipe left.

We are taking things slow. We believe getting to know one another is important. If you are attached and your partner doesn’t know, we will kindly shut it down, even if the romance is gone or your wife understands but “prefers not to know about it.” 🙄

Lastly, we may have met on this site but that doesn’t give license to contact her immediately asking for more pics or to meet up. This shouldn’t need to be stated but apparently we have come to that point— this profile and her pics do not mean she is flirting with you or leading you on. She doesn’t owe you anything. Any indication of this aggressive behavior will be blocked and reported as such.