I'm what you would call 'not serious' - I'm not really into meeting people from here. I would love to find someone who I connect with for a more long term relationship but on AFF I think this is a hookup site. So I'm just here for exploration. I'm a clitoral woman but I'm increasingly more responsive to penetration. Sex for me is not penis-centered though. It is orgasm centered and centered around what feels good for you and me. Like a meal with many dishes - I like it when there are different parts to sex - both people taking turns giving, getting, extending it for a bit. But not forever - I also want to do other things outside. Live life. I'm interested in learning about penetrative orgasms if someone can help me make them worth my time. I'm not interested in meeting people in person. I guess I use this site to talk about sex from my perspective, to say things that I've encountered in my sex life that has made me angry or sad. This is like my sex blog. Things like: My body is hairy. If you love that - that's an awesome thing to say. I don't expect for everyone to love it. But if you don't have something nice to say, why comment on it? I like to be complemented but I don't need it, or need a line - I much prefer honesty. I'm not trying to judge you and I don't want to feel judged myself. And no-body-talk is fine too. That's me. I like it when someone notices my personality, my humor, my more inner self. WARNING: Any institutions using this site for studies or projects - YOU DO NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. It will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.

My Ideal Person My ideal person is thoughtful and communicative and knows how to listen both to verbal communication and also non-verbal.