Here's my story... I was in a 12 year relationship that ended when my lady died of an accidental prescription drug overdose in 2013. I've been brooding a lot since then. Not completely sure I'm ready for a relationship, but definitely don't want to avoid it if the right per comes my way. However, even in my confusion and whatnot, I am a very sexual per. I've played with a few ladies since my widowhood, and enjoyed it. Honestly, fun, uncomplicated sex seems as good as anti-depressants to me. I'm definitely not averse to friends with benefits or possibly more; I'm also fine with something very casual and uncommitted. I was born in 1972; have dark hair, green eyes, and fair skin; I'm not particularly athletic, but I'm not in terrible shape. I could stand to lose a few pounds, but I'm not obese. Newly relocated to SW Missouri and looking for fun!

My Ideal Person Well, this is an interesting one to try to answer. In some ways I have a very specific notion of who & what I'm looking for; in other ways, I'm very open and fluid.

First off, you need to be interested in sex. Again - the idea of friendship or something more developing organically sounds great, but the reason I have signed up here rather than a "regular" dating site is because I'd like to meet women who are...well...horny.

Now, please understand - that doesn't mean I'll disrespect you. If we decide to meet for coffee or drinks or something, that doesn't mean I automatically expect that we'll be fucking by the end of the evening.

That said, I'd very much enjoy it going that way.

Physically, I'm pretty opens. Race is not an issue, nor is age (as long as you're legal! . As for body type - I can go from super-petite (think Anne Hathaway) to curvy (think Lena Dunham). There are obviously just certain intangible things about attraction, even based on photos, though.

There are certain things that do turn me on, though they're neither deal-makers or deal-breakers. I have to admit - having grown up masturbating to my Dad's PLAYBOYS from the seventies - a hairy pussy really turns me on. I tend to go more for redheads and brunettes than for blondes, but...again, if you think I seem cool and you're blonde, don't let that stop you! =)

I've played a lot in the swingers scene, and even a bit in the porn industry here in L.A. (I actually appear fully clothed in a porn movie - I'll tell you all about it if we get to know each other).

One thing, just to make clear: I am NOT interested in having children, even if we fall madly in love. It's totally cool if you have kids, but I'm just not wired for parenthood. About as close as I can come to being a parent is taking care of my cat.

What else can I tell you? I'm not religious, but I do believe in right and wrong. I've suffered some major pain in my life but also been lucky enough to have great amounts of fun and pleasure. I have a totally dirty mind - as I type this, an MP4 of a n asslicking threesome is playing on my computer (I love-love-LOVE giving and receiving oral sex, and particularly love rimming - again, not a deal breaker though).

Other random facts about my sexual interests? I love naughty librarian types - or basically any lady who seems very prim and proper on the surface and is a raging nympho underneath. That's a huge turn-on for me as are - LOL, naturally - glasses.

So throw me a line if any of this interests you and if the various photos I've posted turn you on.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming, Light Bondage, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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