WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. Happily married, financially stable, mixed couple in search of the ever elusive unicorn. We are drug free, drama free, STD free, and plan on staying this way. We are height proportionate to weight & looking for same. We do take care of ourselves and while we don't expect perfection, we are looking for the same. We don't have any jealousy issues, nor do we have a bunch of rules. The only thing we ask is that you like both women and men. Other than that, we are pretty open to almost anything... Have received many offers from couples and thank you for that, but we have no interest.

My Ideal Person A WOMAN who knows what she wants and is not shy about going after it. If this is your first time, that is more than fine, we all have to have a first, right? While we are more than fine with a "NSA" situation, ultimately we would like to find a LTF with a woman. Someone we can have fun with in and out of the bedroom. Someone we can go to a movie and maybe even travel with. Familiarity can be a very good and safe thing. Aggressive women are a big plus. As for race... What's that? He is very STR8 and we both really do love women, so... As shallow as it sounds, physical attraction is a must for all of us, so we would want to see a picture before we meet and we will do the same. Not looking for perfection, just attraction. Everything else will work itself out.

If you are married or single, that's all you. We are not here to judge you or to be judged. If you are married/attached, that's your business. Life is short and there is no time to waste judging other people. We are all adults, and we know why we are here, right? See you in the funny papers...

Oh yes, note to self: Not into never ending emails. We have been on this site for a while now. Have ran into some really nice and genuine people, but have also wasted a lot of time on collectors and flakes. Not here for that. Not to say that we wouldn't take the time to get to know you, but have zero interest in people who are simply looking to get your ego stroked. "If you're not here after, what we're here after... You're gonna be here after we're gone..." So at some point, you have to be willing to meet. Love that chat and all, but... Also, as we have dealt with so many wishy washy people at this point, I, the male half will be the initial POC. I promise you we are a couple, but if she had to sort through all the "talkers" on here, nothing would ever happen. Once we agree to move forward, all future contact will be with the wife. If that's an issue, we understand and good luck to you...

Lastly, no sex on first meet. Don't care how much tension there may be... Don't have a lot of rules, but that's one. We don't bed hop, nor are we looking to be a booty call. First meet will always end with us going our way and you yours. I know that sounds screwy, but think it's good for everyone to be able to marinate on the initial encounter to see if this is something we really want to do. Also, it takes the pressure off everyone. So, if you still have interest, would love to hear from you. Be well...

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
On a sunny beach with waves crashing in all around

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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